Age 18, thinking of a baby?

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• Why judge her? Do you know her?

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  by Strawberries on November 6th, 2009

• She's 18 and thinking about "having a baby." That's all I NEED to know.

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  by CaptainHarley adores his life penguin on November 6th, 2009

• Maybe you should read the info I put in the first comment BEFORE you stereotype and judge. (:

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  by Alessandruh on November 6th, 2009

• If I was out of line, I apologize. You most certainly are NOT the stereotypical "teenage mommie-wannabe." But if I may make a suggestion ... if your boyfriend is any sort of man, he will marry you before you have a baby. A young single mother with no job skills ( unless there's something you've not mentioned ) is vulnerable in the extreme, which is why a disproportinate number of them are on welfare. I'm sorry I didn't see your explanation. Perhaps you should reference it in your question.

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  by CaptainHarley adores his life penguin on November 6th, 2009

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• i say go for it by the way you described it you have a great life ahead of you i think you could handle a kid

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  by tyladodds on November 6th, 2009

• I'm not here to judge you. I would wait until you are done with school before having a baby. A baby is a full time job. School is something that could easily be pushed aside when you are tired from the baby crying all night. I have known 18 year olds and younger who had children and most of them did fine with it, but also say they wished they had waited a little longer because they felt they had too much responsibility too soon.

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  by soulalonegirl on November 6th, 2009

• Thank you (: x

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  by Alessandruh on November 6th, 2009

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• Thank you for your honesty (:
  &being nice haha x

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  by Alessandruh on November 6th, 2009

• No problem. I hope you have a good future, baby or no baby.

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  by bendybot on November 6th, 2009

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• Please don't jump to conclusions about my boyfriend and I. Being unmarried does not make us bad people, we live together, have been together longer than some married couples, and very rarely spend time apart. Marriage is pretty much the same, all we lack is a binding legal contract. I do indeed have a job and a car isn't really needed where I live. I think an unmarried 18 year old should MAYBE have a baby because she feels ready, I never set anything in stone. People are so judgemental these days.

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  by Alessandruh on November 6th, 2009

• Thank you for kicking my ass! Clearly you are not an average 18 year old young woman! I bitch and moan, but this is so often the stiuation, girls,babies, money,no money,if I have his baby he might love me...on and on. You sound like the kind of woman who would make a terrific Mom but...still...18 is really young. I am being a bit judgemental. Sue Me! Really, if I were your Mom(and admittly I'm not!) I would tell you that you and your boyfriend should get married first, then think about a child. If he is willing to commit himself to you, thats Daddy material. If he balks, thats you totally on your own.

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  by 34th st. on November 6th, 2009

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