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How can women believe in the word of God when he is so blatantly anti-female?

By killdrphil Asked Nov 3 2009 10:24PM
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by Phillis - Zacks little sister on Nov 4, 2009 at 5:21 am Permalink

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God didn't say that. Man did. They're still saying it in the middle east. +5
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Avatar Phillis - Zacks little sister Nov, 04 2009 at 04:20 PM
They STILL live by those "doctrines" in the middle east! It boggles my everloving mind. Wanna know how they "officially" can tell if a woman is a virgin? They examine her hymen. If it "looks" broken, she's as good as dead. Any doctor will tell you that there is no way in HELL even a physician can tell if a woman is a virgin by how her hymen appears. Ridiculous! Women are still being murdered for no reason if their hymens don't pass inspection.
Avatar killdrphil Nov, 04 2009 at 04:33 PM
Barbaric. I heard in some countries they will cut off a woman's clit too. Just to make sure she doesn't enjoy sex. Insane.
Avatar Phillis - Zacks little sister Nov, 04 2009 at 04:40 PM
I watched a documentary online about that perhpas a month ago. They don't even use a topical anesthetic, even though it's available. They hold the little girls down as they scream in pain. I couldn't finish watching it :(

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by pouncey on Nov 3, 2009 at 10:38 pm Permalink

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Did jesus say that women were people too and just as valuable as men? I get lost on that.
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Avatar pouncey Nov, 12 2009 at 09:47 PM
35 cents well its better than nothing.
Avatar kittygoesmoo- engaged...finally Nov, 17 2009 at 04:25 PM
Hey you get a ummm hot piece of ass? :S
Avatar pouncey Nov, 17 2009 at 08:53 PM
No im a fat ass.

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by Missy on Nov 3, 2009 at 10:27 pm Permalink

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If there is such a thing as "The Word Of God" (I'm still soul-searching) then I would think that it is not anti-female, but the interpretation of His Word would be, due to the fact that the books of the Bible were written during times when women were thought by society to be less important than men.
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Avatar Dreamlight Nov, 03 2009 at 11:06 PM
Please don't beg the question.
Avatar Missy Nov, 04 2009 at 07:16 AM
????

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by TjoeJam AKA TjoeTwerp..For Real on Nov 3, 2009 at 10:40 pm Permalink

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Yo don't make me break out the Old Testament when God created Women:):) Wooooooo...Man:) It was your little pea brain that made you eat the apple!!!..Duh:):)
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Avatar TjoeJam AKA TjoeTwerp..For Real Nov, 04 2009 at 08:57 AM
Those damn Skirts:):)LOL:)
Avatar weatherman shrouded in clouds Nov, 04 2009 at 08:33 PM
Well, let's see now. He took a piece of something else he had made, and made something different. Then the last thing God created succeeded in getting humanity thrown out of Eden. All you XX chromosome humans OWE us something. Get with it. Save us!
Avatar TjoeJam AKA TjoeTwerp..For Real Nov, 04 2009 at 08:59 PM
Save yourself:):):)LOL:P

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by N I C K on Nov 3, 2009 at 10:28 pm Permalink

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God is far from anti-female. Jesus associated with and loved women just as he loved men during his walk on earth. Believing that women hold a different role in the household does not make the word of God anti-female.
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Avatar Blessed has a COAT of many colors Nov, 04 2009 at 06:29 PM
I don't think you bothered to read my answer. I have done that work. Most of my female friends have done that work. With modern machinery, it is JUST doable for a woman. With ancient farming methods, it wouldn't be.
Avatar killdrphil Nov, 05 2009 at 04:56 PM
This is what you respond with? A farming example? You're silly. Well, there are many women physically stronger than many men and many who can kick your ass, I'm sure. A farming example...lol. Hey. I'm talking about something a little bigger, you know? I'm talking about how The Bible says a man can treat a woman. In general. And how they are not equal and can be "done away with" etc., etc., etc. A farming example...lol.
Avatar Blessed has a COAT of many colors Nov, 05 2009 at 04:59 PM
The Bible also says that a man should love his wife as he loves his own body, and that a man should love his wife as Christ loved the church, which is to say self-sacrificially unto death. By the way, just what, exactly, do you think men did for a living when the Bible was written? Do you think they tapped away on a computer in a climate controlled office?

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by Galeanda on Nov 4, 2009 at 5:47 am Permalink

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I don't find it that at all. On the contrary I find great respect and dignity given to women, as there is given to men.
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Avatar killdrphil Nov, 05 2009 at 05:07 PM
Oh man...if I had the time I could come up with a lot of things, quotes, etc., all that. I just don't feel like getting into it anymore though.
Anyway, nice to see you, Galeanda. Didn't realize that was you.
Avatar Galeanda Nov, 06 2009 at 04:21 AM
That's okay, kill. I always enjoy talking with you. It's refreshing to find someone that CAN talk about differences and not get belligerent or rude or knows when they'd rather not :-) (((hugs))) always.
Avatar killdrphil Nov, 06 2009 at 08:16 AM
Haha likewise : )
::hugs::

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by words o wisdom on Nov 4, 2009 at 5:11 am Permalink

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God made eve from adam's rib to be at his side and not at his feet.
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Avatar words o wisdom Nov, 06 2009 at 11:34 PM
lol. Well the bible essentially serves the purpose of instilling fear in people who do things them that ore of poor chracter or lack moral judgement.. would u not agree? If you do this or you do that you go to hell. I believe that we should embrace good moral and treat others woth respect, however I don't think that because I fear hell or because god says that's right... I believe that because I want to be treated by others the same way. So I couldn't care less for religion. I know u were kidding but that's what I meant. Lolz.
Avatar killdrphil Nov, 07 2009 at 02:41 PM
Yeah. I think The Bible instills a lot of things in people. And definately not all good things. And yeah people should want to be a good person, and all of that, without being influenced by fear and what not because then it isn't genuine.
Avatar words o wisdom Nov, 07 2009 at 08:08 PM
agreed :D

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by catofky on Nov 4, 2009 at 5:18 am Permalink

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Take into consideration that the church and religion as we know it today has been controlled by a group of old men for centuries. Scripture has been rewritten numerous times to meet their needs. Women have not been involved, and have been belittled in the eyes of the church. That is not Gods way. That is the sole result of man interpreting Gods word for his own purposes.
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by Blessed has a COAT of many colors on Nov 4, 2009 at 6:08 am Permalink

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About the only way you could believe that about God is if you know nothing about the Bible and the culture and times in which it was written. If you have any problems understanding, look at the rest of the Middle East, where treatment of women hasn't changed much since the Bible was written and where the Bible hasn't had a mitigating effect. Read the story of Esther, where Esther was forcibly married by a foreign king and when she had to approach him to save her people, she did so on pain of death if he didn't want to talk to her. You can find examples all through the Bible of how men of other religions and cultures treated women.

Contrast that with Christ, who welcomed women when He taught. He gave Mary not only the same privileges as the men He taught, He gave her the best seat closest to Him. Paul commends many Christian women teachers, such as Phyllis and Apollonia. He also teaches that men should love their wives as their own bodies and as Christ loves the church. How did Christ love the church? Self-sacrificially unto death.

The problem is that too many people cherry-pick the Bible these days or read it like a novel without understanding the backstory. It isn't a novel. You have to know a great deal about the history of the area to be able to understand it at all. And if you read it without knowing the history, you are going to get some pretty skewed views of it.

The Bible is the story of God's interaction with mankind and specifically with one people and one family: the family of Jesus Christ. That family interacted with other cultures in the region, and so some of those culture's history is written into it. They were conquered by other kings, so often the king being discussed is not Jewish. Some of the Kings of Israel were Jews by birth, but did not worship God. Their behaviors were deplorable precisely because they were following Ashtoreth and Ba'al and sacrificing children to an idol. God destroyed Israel several times precisely because of those behaviors. He didn't even spare His own chosen people when they did those things. But the overall influence of the Judeo-Christian faith was to give women more and more rights, love and protection than they'd ever had, culminating in what we have now. Do you really think we gained the place we have now in a vacuum or through a political process?
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Avatar Talimze wins the prize Nov, 06 2009 at 06:41 AM
The cool thing is that at the same time that God was destroying his own chosen people "to give women more and more rights, love and protection than they'd ever had," the German women living in Northern Europe at the time were already social equals. And they had Nordic gods. Thank you Mighty Thor for equal rights!
Avatar killdrphil Nov, 06 2009 at 12:57 PM
Heil Hitler?
Avatar Talimze wins the prize Nov, 06 2009 at 02:29 PM
You're god damn right, nigga.

Answer 10 out of 11

by EvangelineOFire on Nov 4, 2009 at 6:13 am Permalink

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I asked the same question many times over the years, but these days my view is that since what we "know" about God is largely from books written by men, we can conclude that men put words/deeds/actions into God's mouth (and other parts). The word of God is therefore the word of men; men who wanted to control women and other men as well. I neither believe it nor accept it so I don't bother with it.
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