by leona on November 3rd, 2009

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Why would a woman sleep with someone else’s man knowing how hurtful this is to another woman? For goodness sakes….she’s a woman too. How can women hurt each other like that and don’t care?

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  • by Teresa on November 3rd, 2009

    Teresa

    The way you phrase your question, it's like women are a team or something by virtue of their sex. As if we all believe in the same principles, we all work toward the same goals, we all fight against a common enemy. That's not how I feel at all. I've met plenty of women and plenty of men in my life, and I can definitely point out some men with whom I have way more in common than some women I could point to. What are women to me? They're no more or less to me than men are. We're all humans: in the scheme of life on earth, men and women are the same thing. It really bothers me when people talk like "women are from Venus, men are from Mars." I don't think I owe anyone any special treatment: rather, I treat everyone the same until given a reason not to.

    So, to me, your question is basically asking why a person would hurt another person. My answer to that is: because they don't care enough not to, because our society glorifies selfishness, self-centredness, and instant gratification.

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  • by -Icy- on November 3rd, 2009

    -Icy-

    some believe the lies they are told.
    some just don't care or have morals.
    and some i don't know nor can i speak for.

    +5

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  • by Megan on November 3rd, 2009

    Megan

    I couldn't be with a married man,only by fear of being beat up by his wife;I have a low tolerance for pain and I'm a bleeder.

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  • by Gingerminx on November 3rd, 2009

    Gingerminx

    Just because she is a woman doesn't mean she holds any kind of obligation to be there for other women, it is not a sorority. Having said that, to know why someone does it you would have to ask them, as I am sure there are many and varied reasons. In my opinion though, it is irrelevant, the "someone else's man" is the only one who has promised fidelity and the one who chooses to break that trust.

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  • by loves.CSI.vegas on November 3rd, 2009

    loves.CSI.vegas

    Because the man can lie, saying how bad the other woman is, and how he really loves you, and he is going to leave her for you. He makes sure she hears everything she wants to hear. And woman are total bitches...

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  • by GibsonGuy on July 10th, 2010

    GibsonGuy

    Because she loves him, perhaps. Or, he makes her horny and her man doesn't. Or, she doesn't give a hoot about his woman and just wants his sex. Or, she's hoping he'll leave the other woman. Or, she feels a man is just a man so what difference does it make - they're all beasts so why not manuipulate them. Or, she doesn't respect herself enough to understand she can hurt other people.

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  • by Anonymous on November 3rd, 2009

    Anonymous

    Some women are really conniving and get a thrill out of sleeping with someone elses guy. Not saying the case for all women who get involved with guys in relationhips but i know some are like this

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  • by Bob on November 3rd, 2009

    Bob

    part of it is availability, the attention that married people shower upon single people ... as i've said on AB before, for every man who cheats on his wife, he is doing so, almost always, with another woman. some of these women are still naive. most just appreciate the glitter and attention from a more mature man. i completely agree with you on this one, it's stupid all around...

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  • by eddx004 on November 3rd, 2009

    eddx004

    temptation is a bitch

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  • by simplycurious89 on November 3rd, 2009

    simplycurious89

    I think you should be referring to the whole human race and not a specific gender, women. Why does any one person hurt another when they know they are going to cause damage/pain?
    Any person is capable and willing to look out for themselves. It is survival of the fittest so to speak(human nature). A person puts his/her-self before anyone else. Because if you don't look out for yourself, who will? Yes, it is hurtful and evil of a woman to sleep with another woman's partner. The woman who slept with the man only has a responsibility to herself. It is a primal instinct to think of one's self.
    The woman who slept with the man has no feelings for anyone else but herself. So she's disrespectful, a tramp. w.e. you want to call her but she is acting out her instinct. I don't approve of her actions but the blame lies with both the woman and the man for sleeping with one another (while the man is in a relationship w/another woman).

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  • by Freckles on November 3rd, 2009

    Freckles

    Look I think you should dump him...he is the 1 who REALLY knows that he has a girlfriend. So sorry you shouldn't be saying why are their cruel women..you should be asking why is there cruel people in this world....so u can raise above their faults and become a better person

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  • by DaniMac on November 3rd, 2009

    DaniMac

    I blame men mostly for this. I mean if the women are friends thats one thing, but if they're strangers, then I put 80% on the man.

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  • by rebellious angel on April 4th, 2011

    rebellious angel

    Even if I hated the woman, I wouldn't do that. Bad karma and I don't want her running after my ass or spreading shit about me as women tend to do. I don't need that drama. This also applies if I didn't even know her. I just don't need some bitch on my case. As for a close girlfriend...of course I wouldn't do it because I care for her. Anyone but a friend of mine can go to hell but I'm not gonna do anything vindictive to them for fear of consequences, as opposed to solidarity with my sex

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  • by Loud22 on October 11th, 2010

    Loud22

    If he's willing to stray I'd say that one could do both of them a favor... just call her the next day and explain how her husband had tried to get with you anonymously of course...after they break up(assuming she has any self-respect) accept his advances and everyone is happy then.

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  • by AnonymousGirl on November 7th, 2010

    AnonymousGirl

    Not everyone respects boundaries in marriages and relationships. That's just a fact.

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  • by anon on November 3rd, 2009

    anon

    I don't think women, or even men, care about the "Other Person" unless they personally know them. It is really all about the Cheater. The Cheater is making the decision to break up and hurt his/her relationship.
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    The "Other Person" believes the Cheater's selfish words that they are not in another relationship, that it is horrible and poor Cheater; and countless other lies. I really don't think the "Other Person" is trying to hurt the partner of the Cheater, nor sees the partner getting hurt; the "Other Person" seems to be in a denial form. When they see the partner, another story. I don't think it is right, caring or helpful. But it is the Cheater who has the responsibility.

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  • by sexykins20 on November 3rd, 2009

    sexykins20

    four words for that women heartless cruel evil relationship-wreacker

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  • by N I C K on November 3rd, 2009

    N I C K

    She is under the influence of familiar spirits.

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  • by Old School on November 3rd, 2009

    Old School

    As my father was fond of saying: "People are no damn good".

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