Why would a woman sleep with someone else’s man knowing how hurtful this is to another woman? For goodness sakes….she’s a woman too. How can women hurt each other like that and don’t care?
The way you phrase your question, it's like women are a team or something by virtue of their sex. As if we all believe in the same principles, we all work toward the same goals, we all fight against a common enemy. That's not how I feel at all. I've met plenty of women and plenty of men in my life, and I can definitely point out some men with whom I have way more in common than some women I could point to. What are women to me? They're no more or less to me than men are. We're all humans: in the scheme of life on earth, men and women are the same thing. It really bothers me when people talk like "women are from Venus, men are from Mars." I don't think I owe anyone any special treatment: rather, I treat everyone the same until given a reason not to.
So, to me, your question is basically asking why a person would hurt another person. My answer to that is: because they don't care enough not to, because our society glorifies selfishness, self-centredness, and instant gratification.
I had to almost laugh. You don't like her because of the truth she said, or your assumption she is a psychologist and you don't like psychologists? Like some people don't like doctors or criminals?
Just because she is a woman doesn't mean she holds any kind of obligation to be there for other women, it is not a sorority. Having said that, to know why someone does it you would have to ask them, as I am sure there are many and varied reasons. In my opinion though, it is irrelevant, the "someone else's man" is the only one who has promised fidelity and the one who chooses to break that trust.
Some women are really conniving and get a thrill out of sleeping with someone elses guy. Not saying the case for all women who get involved with guys in relationhips but i know some are like this
part of it is availability, the attention that married people shower upon single people ... as i've said on AB before, for every man who cheats on his wife, he is doing so, almost always, with another woman. some of these women are still naive. most just appreciate the glitter and attention from a more mature man. i completely agree with you on this one, it's stupid all around...
Because the man can lie, saying how bad the other woman is, and how he really loves you, and he is going to leave her for you. He makes sure she hears everything she wants to hear. And woman are total bitches...
I think you should be referring to the whole human race and not a specific gender, women. Why does any one person hurt another when they know they are going to cause damage/pain?
Any person is capable and willing to look out for themselves. It is survival of the fittest so to speak(human nature). A person puts his/her-self before anyone else. Because if you don't look out for yourself, who will? Yes, it is hurtful and evil of a woman to sleep with another woman's partner. The woman who slept with the man only has a responsibility to herself. It is a primal instinct to think of one's self.
The woman who slept with the man has no feelings for anyone else but herself. So she's disrespectful, a tramp. w.e. you want to call her but she is acting out her instinct. I don't approve of her actions but the blame lies with both the woman and the man for sleeping with one another (while the man is in a relationship w/another woman).
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