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I don't believe in soulmates. I think love is more of a tolerance thing. The more tolerant you are of other people's mistakes, the more loving in general you are. I find it quite difficult that as many people who say they've found their soulmate actually did. Especially considering the high 1st marriage divorce rate. I think people believe they've found their soulmate, but it's only because they don't actually know what it is, even if they whole-heartedly believe they do.
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I haven't found my "soulmate" yet only because I haven't found someone who I'm equally tolerable of as she is of me.
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I think I will eventually find a girl to settle down with, but I'm not in a rush. I want to make a right choice. By the way, there was actually an article on CNN last week that posed the question of whether or not monogamy is realistic. I personally believe that only a small percentage in this world have the self discipline to be completely monogamous. The rest either accept they can't be or hide it from their "soulmate." +3
by gardengirl10 on December 25th, 2009
Selected by the asker, Catherine. (What's this?)
Everyone has more than one soul mate. Soul mates are members of the soul family that come into your life to teach and learn. They can be any relationship.
If you mean your true other half, that would be a twin flame, which may or may not be incarnated at the same time. When both halves are ready, they will come together. As with soul mates, the twin flame relationship is also very spiritual.
"Twin Souls, A Guide to Finding Your True Spiritual Partner" by Patricia Joudry and Maruie Pressman, M.D.
by sm00z on November 2nd, 2009
I hope to be with my soul mate in eternity.
She passed away in July.
by Debris - the new slimline version. on November 2nd, 2009
my boyfriend is my soul mate. He was a good friend all through my childhood (who I had the biggest crush on ever)
We have been together 12 years and we do everything together. we know what each other is thinking and we hate being apart.
I am soooo lucky to have found him.
by Anonymous on November 2nd, 2009
I found mine 15 years ago. My lovely lady Meghan. +5
by Thinker on November 2nd, 2009
Mine is in Scotland right how. I am praying she will be here with me very soon. We both want this very much. We have been talking for over 7 months.
by anywho is feeling pretty on November 2nd, 2009
He's in Scotland right now. I have already found him, I just have to wait 44 more days until I get to touch him, but I do get to talk to him and see him every night. I will be with him forever, that's what we are going to discuss when I'm there (I think he's going to propose).
by chillz on November 2nd, 2009
am still haunting for my soulmate!! and hoping to be with him someday!!!
by Gossamer on November 2nd, 2009
She woke up in the bed right beside me this morn
by strange1 still in pb on November 3rd, 2009
here she is and probably wont ever meet:( http://www.answerbag.com/profile/?id=857635
by Confuscious on November 2nd, 2009
I met my soul mate when I was 13. We started out as arch enemies, then went over to being friends and started dating when we were 17.
We were born on the same day, same year. Always had a quarrel over who was the oldest, hehe. Anyway, he died 2 weeks before our 21st birthday. He was pushed infront of a train.
So, I found mine and then lost him again.
by Macy on November 3rd, 2009
I don't where he is. I haven't met him yet. And, yes, I do believe I will meet him someday. Hopefully someday soon.
by bennodalove on November 3rd, 2009
There are some people out there that you will be highly compatible with just as long as you're looking in the right place. That is not a "soul mate" - it's just someone who you click with.
Maybe I'm just to miserable for the fairy tales. & now that I think about it, that's quite despressing =/
by SoulFire on November 3rd, 2009
I found my soulmate at the end of high school, he got set up with my best friend. She knew he was perfect for me. He was. We have been together for 15 years and people still think we are newlywed. They do exist i promise. Don't give up.
by Millenium - The Mysterious M. . . GONE! on November 3rd, 2009
My "soulmate" is right here with me! I REALLY am happy with him! A total "sweetiepie"!
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Comments
YOUr so deep, you will find her..I have confidence in you..
by Catherine on November 2nd, 2009
Thank you Catherine.
by Stevie on November 2nd, 2009
YOur welcome....she is out there waiting for you...
by Catherine on November 2nd, 2009
Great answer, you've pretty much summed up what I was going to say only more eloquently than I would have.
by Spirit of the Nomad on November 3rd, 2009
Thank you for the kind words Spirit. Though I do wish you were the one grading my English papers in school, my teachers wouldn't have agreed with you. :)
by Stevie on November 4th, 2009