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  • Don't go running up to her and spout out a desperate "I love you". That would probably just scare her. Furthermore, you can hardly love her, in the true sense of the word, without knowing her. Try talking to her more often and see if you two click. If things seem to be going well, ask her out on a date. The worst she can do is say no. Also see http://www.answerbag.com/q_view.php/9729
  • I agree with that other guy's answer but by the way your calling her a 'chick' it shows you dont know her very well and should control your feelings until you know its real sometimes someone is just in love with love! it sounds stupid but if a person has not been in love ever or for a long time, they might fall in love with the nearest person to them without actually meaning it! its strange, but hapens! (im not saying this is true with you but its just a possibility)
  • Try to gradually and casually build a relationship with conversation and small talk. Another piece of advice to you is, simply make her laugh. HowStuffWorks.com tells that it is proven that people enjoy laughter, and like being around other who make them do so. As soon as you feel comfortable with it, and as long as you're not rushing things, then you should try asking her out.
  • First, you might not want to refer her to as "this chick." Some women may not like being named after a cute, little baby chicken. Secondly, you couldn't possibly love this "chick," if you don't even know her that well. Instead, you've mistaken lust for love, which is quite a big difference. Thirdly, if you want to get to know her better, then ask her for a dinner date and a movie. Women usually like gentlemen, who have good manners and respect them. Make sure and open her doors for her (i.e., car door, restaurant door, movie theatre door). Don't discuss anything unpleasant, vulgar, or profane. The last thing a woman would want to hear from her dinner date is something that's inappropriate like that you have nasal problems. Discuss something like her favorite movie, whatever comes to mind that can be deemed appropriate. To ensure that it's a good date, don't take her to McDonald's for your first date; unless, you don't want a second. Somehow taking her to a fast food restaurant may not sit well with her.Nothing against McDonald's, after all, I love their Big Macs, but this isn't the type of establishment for taking your date to. Instead, take her to a fine, elegant restaurant that requires proper attire such as a suit and tie, but make sure that you're going to have to foreclose on your house and go into bankruptcy. It doesn't have to be the worrld's most expensive Beverly Hills-type restaurant, but at least, make sure that it's a restaurant that has is clean and appropriate. Most importantly, while on your date aside from having her walk ahead of you and opening her doors, also make suire that you focus the conversation about her and her interests and don't make it all about you. The last thing women want to hear is about their date's achievements and how many times they won a football game back in their high school days. Instead, make sure that the conversation is open-ended and mostly about her. Women like men want to be the center of attention, but since you're the guy, then it's your job to make HER the center of your world; whle, on your date. Bottom line: Be polite, respectful, don't take her to McDonald's, or refer to her as "chick," and be on your best behavior. This will ensure that your date is a success and you'll be more likely to have another date! Good luck and remember, when you two get married, I want to be the first on your list of guests!

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