You were seeing your ex 4 times a week and STILL were sleeping with another man? If you were only seperated, he was still your husband. You were still seeing each other....you cheated on him, that's why he abandoned you.

You asked, I answered...surely, you didn't think we were going to tell you what a scumbag your husband is, did you?

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Well, this is a bitter pill to swallow,

You should have used protection like condoms. Actually forget the condoms, you should have used toys and lived alone. Your husband would have taken you back without a hitch. Now you have to suffer with being a single mom with a child risking a man never to enter into your life.

You knew the consequences of cheating, you knew it was wrong. It was the road you have taken, You got my two cents.

Good luck

in my expert opinion you should talk to jerry springer, he is a very wise man that has dealt with situations like this before. avoid dr phil, he has a creepy mustache and probably likes guys