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Are parents allowed to have my email or username and passwords for things such as email, MySpace, Facebook, blogs, etc. I'm 15 and I will be turning 16 in March. I don't want to give her my passwords, but I'm not sure if it's legal or not.

By Kat Asked Oct 27 2009 1:05PM
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by Willow Medicine Thang read it and weep on Oct 27, 2009 at 1:16 pm Permalink

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Are parents ALLOWED? They are your parents so they are allowed. What are you going to do tell the police? LOL.
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by soulalonegirl on Oct 27, 2009 at 1:15 pm Permalink

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I agree with DaniMac. Your parents should know what you're up to online. I'm not saying that it's polite for a parent to go snooping around in your business if you are doing what you're supposed to. I think a teenager has a right to some privacy. But if a parent is worried about you or if you are in trouble, I think they should be able to look up your accounts to see if there is something happening to you that is wrong or dangerous.
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Avatar DaniMac Oct, 27 2009 at 01:57 PM
Thank you for agreeing w/ me. I like you, lol!
Avatar soulalonegirl Oct, 28 2009 at 12:17 PM
It's easy to agree with a good point of view!

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by DaniMac on Oct 27, 2009 at 1:07 pm Permalink

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If you were my kid & didn't give it to me, you wouldn't have access to any sort of computer device.
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by PPI tests hats on Oct 27, 2009 at 1:08 pm Permalink

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Every smart kid knows they should have an innocent account that they never use.
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Avatar soulalonegirl Oct, 30 2009 at 12:28 PM
And now this 'smart' kid has informed every parent who reads this that teens carry two accounts- one for parents to see, the other for everyone else to see.
Avatar PPI tests hats Oct, 30 2009 at 01:24 PM
lovely generalisation soulalone. I'm certain half the parents in the western hemisphere have read this thread by now.
Avatar soulalonegirl Oct, 30 2009 at 02:21 PM
Sorry to generalize. I just thought your answer was amusing!

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by Kat on Oct 27, 2009 at 1:58 pm Permalink

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Basically my mom thinks i'm haunted by a bad ghost, and psychics and santeros tell her that i'm going to get pregnant if I refuse to do this sacrificing ritual. I'm not gonna do that shit. I'm not doing anything wrong. I don't smoke, drink, i'm a virgin, I left the douches in my life, I have a nice boyfriend that's always respectful. Etc. She just believes psychics that supposedly know everything more than me. I'm tired of her getting into my business cuz most of the time she just ends up making it worse. For example, she'd rather me talk to druggies that would rape me at any chance than my clean-cut boyfriend who hates drugs, drinking, and sex before marriage, just cuz they have horrible lives and she feels bad for them. When I turn 16, I am getting emancipated, so yes if it's illegal to try and have my email and password, i will use that in court for emancipation.
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Avatar soulalonegirl Oct, 28 2009 at 12:23 PM
well, I do feel that you have a right to some privacy. Your mother should believe her own daughter over a psychic. Some parents just hear all the bad things that happen to other teens and get obsessive about the fact it could happen to their child.I hope your mom will open her eyes and see that she has a decent daughter. I hope things get better for you soon!

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by Patrick on Oct 27, 2009 at 1:20 pm Permalink

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I'm also 15 and will be turning 16 in March. What a coincidence! My parents have expressed interest in having access to these things of mine before. I just explained to them why it's wrong and how I felt that it was an invasion of privacy. I don't think there's anything in the law about it anyway. You could compromise and tell her that occasionally she can see your MySpace etcetera if she's concerned about who you're talking to, but not give her the password.
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by still thinkin on Oct 27, 2009 at 1:16 pm Permalink

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Well, it's like this... Legally, they probably don't have a right (are you going to take them to court?). Legally, they DO have a right to keep you from the computer, give you a curfew of 10:00, and do many other things to make you miserable. My hope (and their hope, too, I'm sure) is that you aren't doing anything online that would cause you to be concerned about them having your passwords. If you're going on 16, it'll be soon enough when you'll be able to keep all that private - Eventually, though, you'll miss those times when the biggest challenges in your world were giving up your passwords to your mom...
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