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by Anonymous on November 4th, 2009
Hi Catherine - you DO seem to be a bit infatuated with this incest subject - have YOU had an incestuous relationship at some point ? If so I'd be interested in your TRUE feelings about it - not what someone ELSE may have tried to make you feel !
In answer to your question I need to pose a question - what makes ANY of us "want sexual contact" with ANYONE else ? It's sexual DESIRE - and when sexual desire is reciprocated it becomes MUTUAL desire and CONSENSUAL sex is pretty likely to occur - REGARDLESS of how you may or may not be related ! Let's face it - we ALL have sexual desires and needs ! When those desires or needs surface SATISFYING them becomes the dominant thought and all you REALLY want is someone WILLING to satisfy them - whether you're male or female - related or not ! When two family members have those same desires or needs surface at the same time and they share a mutual interest in satisfying them for and with one another any sex between them becomes consensual - and once it's consensual I sure don't see anything wrong with it. It is just SEX - it's about PLEASURE - where's the problem ?
by Wisdom Tooth on October 29th, 2009
Catherine, why are you so weighed down by incest? Apart from your cousins is there something you want to share? If it makes you feel better, you may unburden yourself in private. My email address is in my profile. I promise I shan't be judgemental.
by Thinker on October 28th, 2009
Most people think it is wild and hot to have sex with family members and in a lot of ways it is.
I have not done so, but would like to not because it is "HOT" sex but because of the love I have for this or that particular family member. What better way to express that love than through the most intiment of ways there is. There are many ways to express love but the joining of the two members has to be the untimate of expressing love.
by Tyrunea on November 22nd, 2009
I think a huge cause of sexual desire within families stems from when one branch of the family drifts in and out of another branch.
My two cousins, who I hadn't seen in almost 8 years, were in-state the entire summer, and for all intents and purposes, they were strangers, and not quite off-limits, but also forbidden.
I think the last time I had seen them was when I was 7 or 8 when I went on vacation to Texas. I didn't see them until they had matured... I don't think I've had a truly restful night since I saw them. It blows.
Just thought of this as well: If you have ever masturbated to a picture of them, there is a hormone released that builds a literal chemical bond inside your head between he/she she/he.
The more often this bond is broken, the less stable a relationship that person can hold.
How do I get my straight dad who hates bi/gay people to have sex with me?
by bisexualkota14 on February 2nd, 2012
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Is anyone else really turned on right now?
by Ytrehafj12 on January 26th, 2012
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I want to have an incestuous relationship with my sister, how do I convince her?
by OtakuPerv on February 5th, 2012
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How do i get my 87 yr old grandmother to have sex with me???
by kinky perverted man on January 27th, 2012
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I think i am in love with my mom, what should i do about this?
by HHFisher1983 on January 26th, 2012
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What about your spouses? How would they feel if you were caught having sex with her sister? What are the repricutions of these actions? As for infatuation, yes just trying to understand why people do what they do..I am sincerely enjoying everyones honesty on this subject..
by Catherine on November 5th, 2009
Hi Catherine - you STILL didn't say whether YOU'VE had an incestuous relationship or not - I know there was a cousin who ATTEMPTED - did you ever actually ENGAGE in an incestuous encounter ? Like I said before if so I'd be curious how YOU feel about it - TRULY feel - not how someone else EXPECTS you to feel !
As for my wife she KNOWS about my previous incest - she's OK with it - she never experienced incest herself - so she isn't in a position to REALLY express her feelings from an experience standpoint. She DOES understand how it could happen - mutual sexual desires and mutual consent to satisfy them. Interesting that you'd ask about her sisters - because she IS my wife I would always want to INCLUDE her in ANY sexual activity that I'M engaged in ! Two of her brother-in-laws have suggested we play "strip poker" as couples on several occasions ( an obvious interest in seeing my wife naked and USUALLY a prelude to sex ) - she knows I'D be game - but she's been hesitant. ( Continued )
by Anonymous on November 6th, 2009
Although she admits the "taboo" part of having sex with a brother-in-law does have some appeal she says she'd be too "jealous" seeing ME have sex with another WOMAN - whether it was her sisters or not ! ( I've offered to have a threesome with her and another guy of HER choice to eliminate any possibilty of "jealousy" - but thats a comment for a different question ! ) As far as repercussions if it's mutual desire and consensual sex between all of the "adults" involved the only "repercussions" I can think of would be mutual pleasure and mutual satisfaction - do you think there would be any "repercussions" BEYOND that ? It wouldn't be like getting "caught" doing something behind anyone's back - it would be out in the open MUTUAL and CONSENSUAL sexual pleasure for all those who CHOOSE to engage in it ! Surely you don't see anything wrong with THAT - do you ?
by Anonymous on November 6th, 2009
One other "sister" comment - my ex-wife and I were in the "swinging lifestyle" for several years and it was pretty well known. Her sister divorced her husband to pursue a relationship with another woman deciding she was a lesbian. She called my wife one day and asked if they could come over for a visit. After some small talk she asked if we could all watch some porno - we did - and after we were all adequately turned on she told us her lover was BISEXUAL and was craving sex with a man ! She knew we were "swingers" - and had told her lover she'd rather "keep it in the family" ! We all were REALLY horny ( from the porno ) - agreed to it - and my wife and her sister watched me have sex with her sister's lover. After the two of US had pleasured each other I approached my wife for sex ( as we usually did after we had sex with someone else ) but my wife asked my to "do" her SISTER first ! I was a little surprised and wasn't sure how receptive her sister would be - after all ( continued )
by Anonymous on November 6th, 2009
she'd gotten OUT of a sexual relationship with a man ( her ex-husband ) to pursue a sexual relationship with a WOMAN - would she even WANT sex with me ? I started out VERY slowly and cautiously - performing ORAL sex on her first. She DID respond ( I guess SHE'D gotten pretty horny by then as well ) and we DID have intercourse. After WE'D finished pleasuring each other THEN my wife and I did OUR thing. We sat around - naked - for HOURS talking about how much fun we'd had - what a "turn on" it had been - and how pleasurable the experience had been. It was a "one time" thing - I never had sex with either one of them again - but nearly every time I see or talk to her sister ( my ex-wife and I are divorced - her sister lives in another State and is no longer with the same woman - I very rarely see or talk to her ) she mentions how much FUN she had that day ! SHE obviously has no regrets - my ex-wife sure doesn't - and neither do I ! Why should it bother anyone else ?
by Anonymous on November 6th, 2009
NO I didn't have any sexual incest, nor would I...Its not for me...I am trying to understand why someone would want to...Like I said its primal urge....If two consenting adults want to go ahead, but I am not into it...Dont agree with it.
by Catherine on November 7th, 2009