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Oh wow. A guy I dated many years ago and broke up with....we just met up last night. Now I like him, I didn't like him that much before. We had sex, did I screw it up?

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by kybear on Oct 25, 2009 at 6:28 pm Permalink

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You might have. You won't know until you see if he is still interested or not. Hopefully, it was good sex.
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by .avallach on Oct 25, 2009 at 6:20 pm Permalink

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If you're asking if you screwed up the chance of a relationship by having sex on basically the first date, I'll say no. I don't think that really has any effect on things.

A guy I used to work with told me once "Yeah, I met this chick once, we went out for drinks, she told me she was only interested in sex, no relationship or anything. I married her."
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Avatar The Crimson Magician Oct, 25 2009 at 06:21 PM
LOL!
Avatar Jackstain Oct, 25 2009 at 06:31 PM
lmao i'm jealous.
Avatar lonelydragon Oct, 25 2009 at 07:16 PM
ITA, avallach. If sex drives the man away, he probably wasn't interested in a serious relationship in the first place.

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by AB AUNT Stillme FBB on Oct 25, 2009 at 7:04 pm Permalink

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No. You are an adult, he is an adult. It was like you just dated last week. The only way you could "screw"up would be to make any assumptions due to having sex. It is what it is. Now, relax and take it slowwwwwwww. :):)
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by john pennington on Oct 25, 2009 at 6:32 pm Permalink

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You were an easy mark for him.

Need i say more?
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Avatar Sandman Oct, 26 2009 at 01:58 PM
That pretty much says it all.

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by The Crimson Magician on Oct 25, 2009 at 6:22 pm Permalink

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Well if you think you screwed it up, your probably right =/
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by Geo is a graphic TROLL on Oct 25, 2009 at 6:47 pm Permalink

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Maybe not. Unless he was just looking for a one night stand, it's possible that something might develop out of it. Could be the man of your dreams. Good luck x
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by lonelydragon on Oct 25, 2009 at 7:18 pm Permalink

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Since I wasn't on the date with you, I have no idea if you screwed up or not. If he didn't act cold, distant, or awkward after the sex was over, then he at least views you in a positive light (this, of course, is no guarantee that he'll call you). You will have to wait and see how he behaves in the next couple of days.

In the future, perhaps you should wait to have sex until you're sure that the other person feels the same way you do.
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Avatar john pennington Oct, 25 2009 at 08:41 PM
ooooooooo
Avatar lonelydragon Oct, 25 2009 at 08:48 PM
Hey, J. Everything going OK?
Avatar john pennington Oct, 26 2009 at 08:08 AM
yes maam. you still in school?

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by gtravels loves her life penguin on Oct 25, 2009 at 7:07 pm Permalink

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Only time will tell. Would be difficult to know what he's thinking.
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by what on Nov 2, 2009 at 11:00 pm Permalink

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yes
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by Sandman on Oct 26, 2009 at 2:00 pm Permalink

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You probably did. Now he thinks you're an easy lay.
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