by Done. never again. on October 25th, 2009

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Oh wow. A guy I dated many years ago and broke up with....we just met up last night. Now I like him, I didn't like him that much before. We had sex, did I screw it up?

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  • by kybear on October 25th, 2009

    kybear

    You might have. You won't know until you see if he is still interested or not. Hopefully, it was good sex.

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  • by .avallach on October 25th, 2009

    .avallach

    If you're asking if you screwed up the chance of a relationship by having sex on basically the first date, I'll say no. I don't think that really has any effect on things.

    A guy I used to work with told me once "Yeah, I met this chick once, we went out for drinks, she told me she was only interested in sex, no relationship or anything. I married her."

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  • by Stillme FBB on October 25th, 2009

    Stillme FBB

    No. You are an adult, he is an adult. It was like you just dated last week. The only way you could "screw"up would be to make any assumptions due to having sex. It is what it is. Now, relax and take it slowwwwwwww. :):)

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  • by Geo is a graphic TROLL on October 25th, 2009

    Geo is a graphic TROLL

    Maybe not. Unless he was just looking for a one night stand, it's possible that something might develop out of it. Could be the man of your dreams. Good luck x

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  • by john pennington on October 25th, 2009

    john pennington

    You were an easy mark for him.

    Need i say more?

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  • by The Crimson Magician on October 25th, 2009

    The Crimson Magician

    Well if you think you screwed it up, your probably right =/

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  • by lonelydragon on October 25th, 2009

    lonelydragon

    Since I wasn't on the date with you, I have no idea if you screwed up or not. If he didn't act cold, distant, or awkward after the sex was over, then he at least views you in a positive light (this, of course, is no guarantee that he'll call you). You will have to wait and see how he behaves in the next couple of days.

    In the future, perhaps you should wait to have sex until you're sure that the other person feels the same way you do.

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  • by gtravels loves her life penguin on October 25th, 2009

    gtravels loves her life penguin

    Only time will tell. Would be difficult to know what he's thinking.

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  • by Possum on October 26th, 2009

    Possum

    It doesn't sound like you screwed anything up if you wanted to send the message that he can drift in and out of your life when he's in the mood for sex.
    I thought you were saving yourself for me. But that's another issue.

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  • by RosieGHM Jetpacker on October 26th, 2009

    RosieGHM Jetpacker

    You'll find out soon enough. If he never calls you, or if everytime he sees you he expects sex, well, you decide if you screwed up. Happy Monday! :)

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  • by what on November 2nd, 2009

    what

    yes

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  • by Rollie on October 25th, 2009

    Rollie

    What was the difference?? I think that needs to be considered. Did you/your viewpoints change or did his? Time will tell, however, if it's going to work. If you had sex with him before, having it now probably won't change anything at all.

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  • by Sandman on October 26th, 2009

    Sandman

    You probably did. Now he thinks you're an easy lay.

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