by Catherine on October 22nd, 2009

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Do you think that incest in genetic related? Or is it perversion? If science found a Gay gene why not a Incestual Gene?

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  • by DukeG on October 22nd, 2009

    DukeG

    I think that is creepier than being gay.

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  • by Anonymous on November 3rd, 2009

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    Catherine - I just LOVE your sexual openness - and apparent infatuation with incest ! I am curious - do you consider yourself a "victim" of incest ? ( I know you were APPROACHED by family members - did you ever ENGAGE in sexual incest ? ) I'm trying to figure out where you're coming from ! Do you CONDEMN incest because of your past experiences with it OR do you accept the fact that incest occurs frequently ( MAYBE even YOU engaged in an incestuous activity ? ) and you are trying to see how OTHER people feel about incest as a way to cope with your OWN feelings about the subject ? Just curious - no big deal either way !

    I don't think incest is "genetic related" ( I don't agree with the "gay gene" theory either ! ) NOR do I think incest is a "perversion" ! Incest is SEX - pure and simple ! ( Why should we try to complicate it ? )

    I had an incestuous relationship with my Mother for a couple years in my late teens and I don't feel the need to blame it on a "gene" where I had no control over it - we were in COMPLETE control and simply satisfying each other's sexual needs and desires. I don't consider it a "perverted" encounter either - it was SUCH a pleasurable experience for BOTH of us - GREAT sex - INTENSE orgasms - PURE sexual ecstasy - I don't understand how anyone could consider it "perverted" to bring one another so much enjoyment ! As I've said it is SEX - pure and simple.

    I want to elaborate on the "gay gene" too - it's too bad gay people feel the need to "blame" their sexuality on a "gene" from which they have no control ! I believe we ALL have control on what we DO even if we can't always control what turns us on sexually. I believe life experiences contribute as much to what appeals to us as our "genes" - two cases in point.

    I have a brother who is gay ( and yes - he uses the "gay gene" reason ) - he dated women - I think his sexual expereinces with them didn't go well - somewhere along the line he experimented with a guy - it DID go well - and he made a conscienous choice on what he LIKED ! I'm certainly OK with him being gay - I don't want him choosing MY sexual partners and I'm not interested in choosing HIS sexual partners ! I don't love him any less for his choices - he doesn't need to make any excuses or apologies to ME for them !

    In MY experience I had NEVER had a "gay" thought in my life - but a bisexual girl friend BEGGED me to suck a cock in front of her because it would turn HER on ! I wasn't interested at ALL - flatly refused - and it was the beginning of the end of our relationship. I did care about this girl - and I found myself THINKING about it - solely for HER pleasure. That was over 20 years ago - my "thoughts" have become an OBSESSION - I now WANT to experience sucking a cock - and don't need to blame THAT on any "gene" ! It is simply MY sexual desire and I don't care if someone wants to call me "gay" - "bi" - "sick" - "perverted" - whatever ! I told my wife about my fantasy BEFORE we got married ( I felt I owed her that ! ) - she "simulates" sucking cock WITH me using her dildo - but because SHE'S been "programmed" to feel "guilty" if she doesn't keep her sexual desires in check ( the IDEA turns us BOTH on ! ) she's reluctant to actually try something I'm convinced would bring us BOTH pleasure.

    This is something that really bothers me - WHY do we somehow feel the need to "justify" our sexual desires OR feel "guilty" about satisfying them ? Why can't we just "DO IT" if it "FEELS GOOD" between two "CONSENTING ADULTS" for our "MUTUAL" pleasure ? It just seems SO simple to me !

  • by 773491 on October 22nd, 2009

    773491

    No, most likely not.

    Because incest often produces deformed/dead offspring. That's because close relatives share lots of their genes. There are certain genes that are fatal when you have them in both alleles (humans have two alleles for each gene, since we have two identical sets of 23 chromosomes). Those genes I mentioned are typically recessive, their effects would be fatal, yet they are 'controled' by the other genes because evolution oppresses them, otherwise many individuals would die due to that.

    However, if you got at one loci (place in DNA) BOTH alleles of such a fatal gene, there is nothing to oppress that gene and it will express itself which can be fatal.

    For that reason, nature has inbuilt into us an 'incest taboo'. People are not sexually attracted to their siblings/relatives, even though relatives are similar to oneself and one would think it would be easy to fall in love with them. Because normally people tend to fall for similar others..

    This 'taboo' works as follows: If you keep seeing a person in early childhood, you won't find him/her attractive. Siblings who are raised appart from each other don't have that experience and are often attracted to each other. Many cases of incest involve therefore siblings that were raised in different families and met later in life.

    Of course, there also is incest where this is not the case, it might have to do with upbringing and disturbing experiences, I don't know I can't really explain why people would do it, since literally there is an internal taboo that makes it not desirable..

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