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by Green Goddess on October 21st, 2009
Forgive them, you do that for yourself, not for them.
by ALF - Gordon Shumway on October 21st, 2009
Know this .... the physical and mental pain and anguish that you will carry, because of this hatred, will not be shared by the one you hate.
by Dracool on October 21st, 2009
Hard to answer without knowing what they did to deserve your hatred.
by ThorThpot on October 21st, 2009
It's kind of weird, but nothing makes you appreciate your last ex like meeting someone new, trusting them, and having them betray you. Suddenly the previous someone looks a lot better in comparison. So the trick is to skip the "foreplay" in the middle and jump to that next enlightened state.
can you fight? do you think i can fight?
by roes159 on January 4th, 2012
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How would you stop violence in schools?
by mjohnson22 on January 17th, 2012
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Should a guy hit a girl back if she hits him first & he can't get away from her/ I say yes, you? why?
by Anonymous on January 12th, 2012
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Can aggression be linked to social status? If so why?
by Bohemian is back on January 18th, 2012
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How does violence against others affect you?
by Kerstin_S on January 23rd, 2012
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True, if I forgive them its beneficial to me, but doesnt that also let them off the hook too?
by InfoJunkie on October 23rd, 2009
You got it. :-)
by Green Goddess on October 24th, 2009