What do you think is the cause of most break-ups between couples?
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puppylover
ANSWERS: 48
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Whooooaaa.. too many to say which is at the top. Here are mine (no specific order). 1. Money 2. Sex 3. Kids 4. Commitment 5. Religion
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Jealousy and infidelity
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I think personality clashes and infidelity would be the most common causes.
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Inability to make adjustments.
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inability to compromise
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Trust.
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communication
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Lack of commuincation. And sometimes people just drift apart. That's happend to me several times, but then again I get bored uncommonly often.
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Lack of trust, and responsibility.
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lack of commuication , if distance is involed , then lack of sex , unfaithfullness, lack of trust , interfering family members and friends , one person or the other being too demanding too soon ( aka wanting a total commitment.) too many fights, not wanting to change for the other person , no matter how small that could be ,
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Poor communication, money, trust issues and inappropriate expectations from each other and the relationship - relationships are often sought by those wanting to solve other problems and when it's too late they realise they did the wrong thing. But that's not to say there's a perfect answer or a way to have a perfect relationship.
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I think money issues are often a point of conflict and tension.
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There inability to understand that the other person is not like themselves. They have different ways of dealing with things, not wrong, just different.
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Lack of trust and sex.
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I would have to say lack of communication. Couples are usually too afraid of the possible reaction of their partner.
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immaturity and/or immature behavior.being old enought to be able to begin a relationship is no guarantee that,that person has the maturity to be able to last in a long term relationship.sucessfull long term relationships are proof that the people involved are operating on higher maturity levels.
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Interfering inlaws!!!
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Lack of Money Lack of Communication Lack of effort.
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moody chicks, and immature men.
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mutual disgust
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Respect, or lack of it. Cheating, on both sides. Money Drugs Greed Jealousy And, the list goes on and on and on.
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Emotional attachment and dependency.
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Lack of communication Jealousy Money Unidirectionalism Lies Substance abuse
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lack of communication lack of respect for each other lack of attention infidelity lack of trust ... all of these will co-exist with another, you can't just have one as in order for it to cause a relationship to break up. One will lead to another, then another, then another, etc.
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lack of self confidence by either party
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stubborness could be one. When one person in a relationship doesn't want to compromise and thinks that everything should go their way, that could lead to some serious arguments and eventually breaking up.
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Fear. fear of comitment fear of vulnerablity fear of being trapped fear of settleing for something and missing THE thing fear of being betrayed (they cheat on you)
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Lack of CTR C = Communication T = Trust R = Respect
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lack of understanding...
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Simply, one of them stops feeling loving toward the other one. For a list of what causes that, see all the other answers - there is no single cause that will apply to all break-ups.
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MY usual answer: Sex Money In-laws
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Money. infidelity, lack of trust/insecurity, lack of communication, sexual incompatability,drug addiction, selfishness, and taking each other for granted. But my #1 answer would be selfishness. It seems like more and more people are unaware that in relationships, you must make some sacrifices in order to make it work.
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A failure of one or both parties to honor themselves. If you can truly honor yourself, then you would choose as a partner/friend/mate only those who also honor themselves. If you can accept yourself without judgment, then you will choose only those who can also accept themselves without judgment. When you judge another you are really judging yourself. If you can accept yourself you can accept others. Relationships break up because we tend to judge ourselves as being unworthy.
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lost feelings
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#1. Money. If you don't agree up front about how money is spent and bills get paid then there will always be controversy 2. Low self-esteem. If your partner has low self-esteem then he/she will always look for others and then blame you for this. The blame comes from the guilt they are going through. In my relationship I always knew when he was doing something that he accused me of was what he was doing. I.e. if he was flirting or having an affair, he would accuse me of doing that too. It's a sure sign.
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Incompatibility.
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comunication lines are not open
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Lack of effective communication.
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Lack of trust and immaturity to know the difference.
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All my relationships have ended because I'm stubborn, and so are the people i'm dating. So, we end up breaking up, because we fought too much. And JEALOUSLY is a big one also.
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Either one or the other partner does not know how to love themselves. There is an underlying issue that usually stems to something deep within themselves, sometimes being genetic or conditioned by life experience.
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lACK OF COMMUNICATION.
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One person put everything they have on the table for the other person. Which is what your suppose to do in a relationship, but the only problem is after a while.. one forgets how important that really is. That's all someone asks for, yet when they get comfortable they put the reality of that importance on the back burner. Once they no longer see that, that one person has giving them everything, and still attempts to give them more- Its done.
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I think most couples break up because one of the people start to be intrested in other people and usualy they will break up with the other people, but sometimes they will go out with another person then the other person will break up with the person who went out with the other person. Understand?
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hmmm i feel that lacking of emotional love and attachment.......
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Cheating
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They dont connect spiritually.
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Trust Issues weather big or small followed by bad communication
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