My girlfriend like's looking at women on the internet, she thinks they're sexy and they turn her on but says she wouldn't want to do anything sexual with a woman. How can this be? Do any other women feel like this? Is my girlfriend bi-sexual?

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• She won't let me look with her! She gets jealous when I look. Do women turn you on?

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  by Lucky_Marty on October 19th, 2009

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• But do they look at women on the net? Admit they're sexy and admit that they get turned on by them?

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  by Lucky_Marty on October 19th, 2009

• Some do. Simply admitting a woman is sexy does not a bisexual make.
  
  She may be bi-curious and become bisexual.. but since she has no desire to date or have sex with a woman... she isn't bisexual.

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  by Elfie on October 19th, 2009

• Perhaps her lack of desire to do so stems from her own insecurities.

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  by Lucky_Marty on October 19th, 2009

• Possible. Though why would she admit to being sexual aroused by them... yet have no desire to sleep with a woman? I would understand insecurities leading to her not -attempting- to pick up a girl. But to say she simply doesn't desire to?

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  by Elfie on October 19th, 2009

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• Did you read the whole question?

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  by Lucky_Marty on October 19th, 2009

• I did. It still seems unlikely to me that she is bi in any meaningful way. Seeing sexiness in the same sex is not the same thing as wanting sex with the same sex.
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  Sexuality is on a continuum, a double bell curve with the majority of people being mono-sexual and what we might call 'highly mono-sexually inclined and rather few people being bi-sexual as such.
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  You might ask her though.

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  by Factotum on October 19th, 2009

• Why would she get turned on? I can tell if a man is good looking or not but have never ever been turned on by a man.

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  by Lucky_Marty on October 19th, 2009

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• I wouldn't mind if she was bi, it might even add another dimension to our relationship. If I looked at men on the net and they turned me on but through my own insecurities wouldn't do anything with them doesn't that still make me bi? Or have I completely lost the plot?

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  by Lucky_Marty on October 19th, 2009

• Well, there no such thing as a "bi" guy sweetie, that's gayness! LOL!!! And No, if ur not "bi" and u truly know it deep down inside then no one can tell u any different! Unless ur in denial. But I would Honestly Think Something was wrong with you because ur a man. It doesn't bother me i'm not one to judge, but if that's what floats ur boat then do you. I'm not a sexist, i don't think it's okay for women to be lesbos but a man can't be gay and that's just the way it is! That's a double standard.

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  by BluBerri Darci on October 20th, 2009

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