Any military to military relationships here? How do you keep it together?
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been married to an airman for six years. i'm not really sure how we keep it together. if i ever find out, i'll let you know.
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Yep. The military to military life is FANTASTIC for making a successful, loving, STRONG and honest relationship. You will be faced with (sometimes, most of the time for some I'm sure,) long distance relationship details, you will be forced to learn about each other if you want kids, and their true colors are almost always easy to see sooner or later for sure. You will learn patience, you will learn understanding, and it will either make or break the relationship. If it breaks, it wasn't meant to be, as love is undying, love is patient, love is kind, love does not boast etc. the biggest thing is this: COMMUNICATION. along with this: SELFLESSNESS and lastly this: a longing to fulfill someone else, and in return be fulfilled by the same.
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It's very hard. My ex-husband and I were together for ten years, married for eight. You have to have a very strong relationship for it to work. If I was on station, he was gone, and vice versa. It made it a very stressful situation for both of us and our children. Our divorce was finalized two months ago...
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yeppers, right here! Dual military couples face a world of possibilities and problems. This relationship can be one of the strongest around as long as there are certain factors involved. trust and trustworthyness- a cheater will destroy this relationship. with so much time apart, it is almost impossible to regain trust after that sort of traumatic betrayal be supportive and understanding ENJOY the time together to the fullest- dont waste your time with petty squabbles when your partner is away, rather than being sad and lonely, use the time to boost the relationship with your kids and reaasure them that mom/dad is fine and loves them no matter how far.
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