I found out that my girlfriend of 5 years sent semi-nude pics of herself to a "guy friend that she worked with". This happened on a 2 week break that we took a year ago. We said we wouldn't be involved with others. She says its no big deal.Can I be upset?
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you're asking for our permission to be upset? then no, you can't be upset. T_T seriously? yes, you can be upset. but just remember, you weren't together at the time. just because you said you wouldn't see other people doesn't mean anything. in fact, most of the time when people say that, they DO see other people. be upset if you want. it was a year ago. why be a baby about it now?
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Of course you can be upset. I think that it's important to note, though, that you weren't together. Therefore, I don't think that you should be surprised, even though both of you said that you wouldn't be involved with others.
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5 years ago, I think you need to get over it. If you want to be, go ahead, and how is this helping the relationship? -
You can be upset about it all you want, and destroy your relationship over something that happened a year ago while you were on a break. A year is an awful long time to harbor this and if you haven't gotten over it yet, you more than likely never will. She says it was no big deal, obviously it wasn't to her cuz she is still with you.
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