no, but, when i found porn on my bfs computer nd i asked a bout it he lied. if he had said "yeah, so what...?" i prob wouldnt of cared so much

Nope. I can understand why a person would, though.

not going to lie... i watch porn.... and it isnt because i am not attracted to my girlfriend, i am VERY sexually attracted to my lady by the way. i just think that men get horny very easily and sometiems have to do something about it otherwise ________. i dont know, to each's own. the whole idea of watching porn, is pretty bad... doesnt that bother ANYBODY to think of their partner getting off to somebody else??? call me selfish, but yeah i would get really upset if i knew my girlfriend watched porn... she doesnt though... i just think that sex is different when it comes to women... they are more emotional right??? guys are just like animals.

No, watching porn is NOT cheating.

In a way, yes I do. It's giving or using something from someone else and taking something away from me. And since I don't like porn, I feel that he is breaking that trust we have built between us by doing it on the sly.

No! But that's NOT to say that I would LIKE him doing it, though!

Not at all.. I love a man who is up for learning and teaching and well you know Happy endings!!!!

I wish people would evaluate their relationships with their own morals instead of relying on everyone elses'. If you feel that it is wrong and that it is cheating and if it makes you unhappy then does it matter what answerbag has to say? Talk to your boyfriend about it. if porn is more important than your happiness or relationship to him, find a boyfriend who has his priorites straight.

No, but I'd prefer for him to be upfront with me and let me know that he's using it. I think couples should communicate these things to each other.

No my friend recently asked me this &&& i don't see it as cheating at all....it's not like they know the person and want to be with them! It's just some harmless fun.

No.

no but it should be open not hidden. Why watch alone??

Nope, especially since I watch it as well.

no. i already knew he was a porn addict before i dated him. now he's trying to resist and see how long he could last. lol! =P

Yes. It doesn't even have to be 'porn' but anything or anyone that will bring those feelings of lust. Lingerie catalogs, posters, etc. I know that many men and women may be comfortable with separating their sexuality by themselves with their sex life with their partner, but I just don't see it that way. As people say that it is wrong to think about someone else when you are committed, I think in this situation it applies as well. I don't give two hoots if the person is "real" or not. That person is not me - plain and simple as that. I still have a big insecurity with this subject that I hope one day will go away completely. I am working on it, and I am somewhat better than I was, but it's difficult when you have had happenings in your history or see it in everyday culture that pornography is so widely accepted. It may seem that what you don't have is more attractive, but I think it can ultimately harm the intimacy of a relationship. I don't understand why so many women and men just desire too much fantasy in their life, as if their partner solely is not enough for them. Why not just create videos or photographs together? It bothers me to no end if someone says, "I am not thinking of the person/people," -- well, that isn't stopping you from becoming aroused! Too many excuses, that is what I say. Putting my morals aside I suppose for good sake I should contradict myself and say that there are many relationships that continue on with the use/indifference of pornography. Most comments made is that if porn starts ruining sex life with a significant other, or if you become addicted, then that is where the problem lies.