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by kdubbin2009 on October 14th, 2009

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He is 8 years older than me and divorced, has a son that is 6. I am divorced too. We had a relationship a year ago. Now, he is texting me telling me he has dreams about me, misses talking to me. I still have feelings for him but I don't want to get hurt.

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  • by gtravels loves her life penguin on October 14th, 2009

    gtravels loves her life penguin

    There's always going to be that element of risk. Only you can decide if your feelings for him are strong enough to take the chance. Which would be worse- taking that chance or living with the "what ifs" for the rest of your life?

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  • by Sharona Life is a Tale Told by an Idiot on October 14th, 2009

    Sharona Life is a Tale Told by an Idiot

    If he hurt you before what's to stop him from hurting you again. What's changed?

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  • by funnybunny on October 14th, 2009

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    I know how you feel. Been there, though not in the exact same way. If you care for this person take the chance and be with him. Life is about taking chances knowing that you could end up getting hurt. It might not turn out how you want it to...but then again it might. Nobody wants to get hurt, but if you guys have a connection, then go for it.

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  • by yahoot on October 14th, 2009

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    "I don't want to get hurt" usually means either "I really don't like him but I am afraid to say it" or "I really want to end up alone".

    You need to decide. If you want to not end up alone, then you need to get back out there and meet people and sometimes take some risks that you might get hurt. This does NOT mean taking risks on every guy who comes along or "settling" for a loser. If this guy has possibilities, you have feelings and there are no "warning bells", you may want to take a chance. However, only you can decide. Nobody (not even the nice folks on AB can decide for you, (and you don't need our permission anyway).

    Otherwise, quit kidding yourself.

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