Anyone else have a husband with fetishes? My husband just caught me in my third affair.He has offered to let me continue with no restrictions if I'll bleach my hair platinum, fake lashes and heavy makeup,and start smoking again.I'm tempted.

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• I was skeptical he would be able to handle my dating openly but he hasn't waivered once. It's actually fun for me throwing it in his face. He couldn't keep his hands off me for a couple of days but he's calmed down now. What he really gets off on is seeing me makeup in the mornings or getting ready for my dates and of course smoking. We've both gotten what we want.However I can see things coming to an abrupt end if I meet someone I want to move in with or even marry.

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  by philldale on November 1st, 2009

• It's actually fun for me throwing it in his face....
  Lord do something to save this world...And "girl", you are already married....No ethics here....Dear Lord.....

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  by sydney on November 7th, 2009

• Not very wise to impose your morals and values on others. Everyone on the planet is different. Humiliation can be very hot for many people.

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  by VROB on November 28th, 2009

• i dont impose anything my friend. And its not about just moral values. No one deserves to be cheated on...Its things like that that are slowly destroying our world, just think about it...

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  by sydney on November 28th, 2009

• You stated she had no ethics. That is merely your opinion. She has a mutual agreement with her husband which I'll bet she does very well at abiding by.

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  by VROB on November 29th, 2009

• Look, obviously we have a very different view about what is moral and what is not...You dont understand. Thats ok. A woman that does all that, a woman that starts SMOKING which is a very harmful habit just to have her husbands permission to have sex with just anybody, a woman that thinks that cheating is ok, has obviously no moral etchics, its not very hard to understand...Adultery is a sin. And marriage is not a game! Its people like that , that mess up this world...Im not saying I am a good person, I am not, no one can say that he\she is good because we are all so little in front of God...But we should all try make this world a better place by starting with our family and our behaviour...:):):)

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  by sydney on November 29th, 2009

• and it is not wise to try to persuade someone that caling a spade a spade is a sin...

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  by sydney on November 29th, 2009

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• I don't know about that. Some men love high maintenance women. Look at the popularity of Christina Aguilera and Gwen Steffani. That sort of bleached porn queen look would certainly make a girl look more accessible.

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  by AH7 on October 31st, 2009

• The makeup and the bleach jobs were a pain in the butt at first but I love both now. It does make me the center of attention everywhere I go which I love, especially with men. I hadn't thought about being a porn star look a like but I suppose you're right. And I have to agree with you it does make me look more accessible and certainly more available. The irony is with my hair so light I get roots quickly and I have to bleach every two weeks. So it's acutally expensive but I do think there is a cheapness about bleached hair that really does a number on men and certainly makes me look more available which I think is a big advantage.

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  by philldale on November 1st, 2009

• You dont have to be a porn star look a like for obvious reasons...Should a cat want to be a cat look a like???
  :)
  And you even have a daughter............Dear Lord...Save this world...

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  by sydney on November 7th, 2009

• Sidney, once again, you shouldn't impose your moral values on others.

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  by VROB on November 28th, 2009

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• I took the deal. Right now it's working better than a divorce. I have a live in baby sitter. I get home in the evenings, spend time with my 4 yr old daughter, feed, bathe her, put her to bed. Then Mommie gets ready and has her date. It's perfect. Like I mentioned above, the only thing I can see disrupting things is meeting someone I want to move in with or marry.

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  by philldale on November 1st, 2009

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• Truth hurts....:)Its not my fault that you need medical help...look, the fact that you are tempted by his offer (I mean, come on, start smoking again just to have sex with any man you want???) You have no moral etchics, i dont know you, but you made a question, and I felt like answering...Next time dont spam others for telling you the truth...

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  by sydney on November 7th, 2009

• It does appear you are showing to the world your true colors, with all do respect as a human, you appear a woman without morals ethics and are very selfcentered. I am in compleate agreement with sydney you need serious help.

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  by Anonymous on November 22nd, 2009

• I would go along with your husband and keep your family together. Sorry about the smoking.

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  by Knock on November 22nd, 2009

• good on ya', sydney +4

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  by Not so Loony gone Ape on November 23rd, 2009

• thanks, i am just very harsh wen it comes on moral etchics...:) Thanks :)

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  by sydney on November 24th, 2009

• You're welcome. Why beat around the bush?
  There's no reason not to call a spade a spade. :)

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  by Not so Loony gone Ape on November 25th, 2009

• yeah but I have to be as polite as I can...:)

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  by sydney on November 26th, 2009

• Don't change your approach, sydney!
  Being polite and kind shows a bit of culture and "calling a spade a spade" can be done without being a rude mother.
  Did you get DRed ?

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  by Not so Loony gone Ape on November 27th, 2009

• As long as your not being deliberately hurtful (and your not) then a factual statement or opinion is fine. too much namby pamby political correctness these days, say things like they are - stand up for Free speech!

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  by Scottishfella on November 27th, 2009

• I'm with Robert Burns on this.

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  by Knock on November 27th, 2009

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• Not to worry. Any problems develop I'll divorce him.

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  by philldale on November 1st, 2009

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• Not funny. If you read further you would see she's already made her decision.

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  by VROB on November 28th, 2009

• first off, don't freak out, I was only kidding, and secondly, yes, yes it was funny.

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  by huhwhat on November 28th, 2009

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