I cant stop thinking about my ex... I really loved her, and even though i have a gf now im not content. I know that i have almost no chance of getting with my ex... I love my gf and my ex, and i cant stop thinking about my ex. I just dont know what to do.

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• Well thats what my friend told me. But i think i should stay with my gf, its not that i have "mixed" feelings, its just that its hard to stop thinking about My ex is at my school (its a VERY small school) and my gf is all the way up in oregon. Ive already analyzed what happened to such an extent that i can read my ex's actions like a book. I know that she is consumed in her own pride and alot of other crap that i could go on about. I love my gf, but i also love my ex, and i think i might need to just let go of my ex sooner or later. Until April i can fix my feelings (I go to see my Gf in April). Any other suggestions?

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  by The Crimson Magician on October 8th, 2009

• When you begin thinking about your ex, battle any heartfelt feelings with what you don't like about her. Try to occupy yourself too - try to avoid dwelling.

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  by Anonymous on October 8th, 2009

• okie dokie then ill do my best! thank you ^_^

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  by The Crimson Magician on October 8th, 2009

• Good luck!

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  by Anonymous on October 8th, 2009

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• Well sadly my girlfriend broke up with me -sigh-
  and ive gotten over my ex, instead of hating im now looking forward to finding a girl later on in life who will be more mature then the ones ive been having lately. Plus im keeping my mind off of it by breakdancing and working on graduating sooner.

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  by The Crimson Magician on November 7th, 2009

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• Its funny but i had only been with my ex for 3 weeks. But the thing is, is that she was the first woman to believe in what i thought was love (or so i thought). She is the first woman to be so like me, and so not like me (i only just found out that she wasnt like me at all).

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  by The Crimson Magician on October 8th, 2009

• Hmmm three weeks? If it ended that quickly I don't see it ever happening again. How old are you? Just let time heal the wounds - it does work. Sometimes you can look back and somehow convince yourself that the old person was perfect, when in fact they were anything but. Try stay focused on the girl your with now, it's not fair to her if your thinking of someone else.

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  by jesster on October 8th, 2009

• im 17 years old. And yes ill definitley try to stop thinking about my ex. I already feel better ^_^

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  by The Crimson Magician on October 9th, 2009

• Ok thats good, awesome!

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  by jesster on October 11th, 2009

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