ANSWERS: 17
  • Change him into an ex-husband as soon as possible. He is horribly selfish.
  • File for a divorce before he gives you HERPES/AIDs/HIV!
  • Only a masochist remains in a marriage filled with so much emotional pain and hurt. Respectfully, I admire your desire to "stick it out," but HE is the one who is "sticking it out," and in, and out, and in, and out of other women (and maybe a couple of MEN, as well). It's time that you END the hurt and the tears, by pretending that this dude is a used condom, and dropping him, ASAP, because HE IS A SAP. You are young enough to start over with someone else who will (hopefully) love you forever, and OFTEN. End the marriage and end the hurt, OK? It's time, LS. +5
  • You already have half an open marriage. Just do what he does and you're there.
  • You seem like a pretty awesome person from talking to you in other topics, so I suggest you should file for a divorce if your husband wont be good to you. You deserve to have your sexual needs met :-)
  • Have sex with the mailman, get out there an do the did, dont forget your condoms....Ride them all the way to oblivion...Have a great time..
  • At the risk of being a but strong handed here, you are suffering from abuse. Not the physical type the emotional type. It should stop. If he won't stop it then you made need to consider getting out.
  • Be honest with him. Then leave him.
  • LadyShakespear...What exactly is really an open marriage? Apparently you do have one. Or at least your husband does. What is good for the goose is usually good for the gander, you know. Being passive never works with a man. You do realize he's too busy doing his "thing" to take care of "your thing". He's a selfish person. I take it your okay with his "cheating" but he isn't okay if you do it. That would make him a control freak and a hypocrite. People CAN NOT do anything to you unless you let them. The real question is: Why are you letting him control you? It would seem you don't really have much a marriage, open or otherwise. By the way, I think you deserve better. I think you know that. Good luck.
  • You worry me, ladyshakespeare.
  • You need to divorce him. There is no such thing as an open marriage in my opinion. Don't settle for him or any other guy who thinks that you're not enough to keep him happy.
  • Something untraceable with a delayed reaction so you can me far away with friends when it happens. He has money right? Perfect.
  • You don't want an open marriage. An "open" marriage isn't a marriage; it's just two people shacking up together. What you want is the freedom to sleep around but to have someone to come home to. You say, "Im nOT a cheater, so" . Yes you are, but you don't have the honesty or the fortitude to call it that. He doesn't want an open marriage. He just wants to sleep around but to have someone to come home to. Even as an irredeemable cheater, he is more honest than you are. IMO you two deserve each other. Suggestion? Divorce him, and sleep around as a single.
  • Marry me
  • I say you get together with some friends and some drinks. Pick out one of his friends that you want, flirt and make small sexual advances toward him in from of your husband and see what happens. He might let you have some alone fun with his friend, he might join you, who knows. At least you can blame it on the al, aaaa, al , aaaa, al, co, hol. And since your doing it in front of him, he has the oppurtunity to either approve or disapprove on the spot, so nothing is hidden. You might get lucky and score!
  • 4-26-2017 IMO both of you should tell the other to get lost. You have no preparation for a relationship. Do it now.
  • Study about Polyamory on the net and present the information to your husband. If He is not going to take care of your needs he is doing you wrong.

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