fault, and no it's called communication and experimenting with your partner.

By a vibrator!!!!! Both of you can experiment learning how to GetRDone..

FAULT not FOULGHT....use the spell checker...come on now...you are worried about having an orgasm and you can't even manage to write what you are trying to say! ARGGGGGG! This drives me nucking FUTZ! I would like to honor your question because I have been there personally at one point in time myself and I know it's frustrating...but PLEASE either work on learning to spell or use the bloody spell check! You are NOT dumb, so don't make us think you are! If you are a teen, having sex, the feelings you expressed are pretty normal, because you haven't grown up as much as you'd like to think you are. You haven't had time to learn to feel 100% comfortable with your body, even though you are sexually active....that's part of it. Also if your boyfriend isn't spending enough time arousing you before you two start having sex...then that too is part of the problem... MOST women need a fair amount of time spent with stimulation to their clitoris...some need even MORE time...and if there is any sort of distraction going on...it can cause problems...likewise if the guy is "in a hurry" it can cause you to shut down. One solution is to practice masturbation... if you haven't already...Once you KNOW exactly what you need physically done to get an orgasm...THEN you may have an easier time explaining it to HIM. It might help too if he would (or likes) to go down on you...a good tongue on the "clit" frequently brings things right into line...and he can use his fingers inside of you for penetration WHILE licking your clit. AFTER you get yours...THEN he gets his...Good luck

If you have had several partners and none have gotten you there it is more your fault than a partner. I am not trying to be judgemental or ugly but if you are not it may be you do not know your self enough yet. Feel down there nothing wrong with that. Learn what you like them open your mouth and tell them. It is the only way for them to know and they won't mind you talking to them about it.

Masturbate, masturbate, masturbate! Get familiar with what you like, and in a pace that you define teach your partner.

I could br your rolled up towel..... ;). So seriously... i could.

His fault he needs to have patience and finish the job. Try using his tongue.