I want to go to prom with my friend. I truly like him and want to be with him(but he doesnt know that)so.. how do I ask him to go to prom with me without making it obvious?
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Okay. If you ask him to prom... It will be obvious. Just feel him out and run it by him casually.
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I asked guys to dances who were just friends but whom I liked in a more than friendly way. I just went with them, had a good time and let nature take it's course. If I get a vibe I moved on it. If you don't get a vibe that he's into you just have a good time. What do you have to loose?
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well ask one of your girl friends to see if he likes you, if he does dont be afraid to make the first move
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G'day Anonymous, Thank you for your question. It depends on how close you are to him because if you guys are reasonably close, he may already have a perception of your feelings about him. If so, ask him if he has a date lined up for the prom. If he hasn't, you might want to use your flirting skills. Use signals such as eye contact, batting eyelashes, touching your hair, casual touches and smiling to indicate that if he asked you, you would accept. Fifty-five per cent of your message is communicated through body language, 38 per cent by the tone and inflection of your voice and seven per cent through what you say. It may well be the case that he is wondering how to ask you to the prom. I have attached sources for your reference. Regards References Wikipedia Flirting http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Flirting SIRC guide to flirting http://www.sirc.org/publik/flirt.html Flirting Fascination http://www.psychologytoday.com/articles/pto-19990101-000033.html Ask Men Flirting http://www.askmen.com/dating/dating_top_ten_60/80_dating_list.html BBC http://www.bbc.co.uk/relationships/singles_and_dating/techniques_flirting.shtml
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just be like, "so do you have a date yet? me neither. hey, we should hook up." like, be really casual about it. and flirt.
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You're lucky. THis is one of the easier problems to solve. Just start the casual conversation with "who are you going to prom with?" and if he says nobody, just say, "me neither." And ask if he would like to go with you. This probably takes the pressure off his shoulders, because if he's your friend, he'll be comfortable and know how you will react to casual conversation.
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It's important to be able to read his body language so that you can gain a fuller understanding of his feelings towards you too. If you're sure (or even if you're not!) that he might be interested then flirt with him a little and see what he does. You don't have to be outrageous...just smile more than often, keep more eye contact and maybe touch his arm or hand sometimes. You can get more ideas about body language from http://www.1oh1.co.uk/body-language
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just ask him
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There is no such thing as asking him to the prom and not having it be obvious. These are the issues that all youth struggle with trying to get to the other side. This is really two questions, as I understand it, and you haven't been clear so I am going to assume that asking to the prom with have to be obvious and what you are really asking is how to let him know you like him without being obvious. The answer to that question is the same as the previous and ANY question of the form: how do I let X know Y without making it obvious. Answer: there is no way. You want him to know! When people "know" something, it is by definition "obvious" to them. Do some dictionary work on that and you will see that the question makes no sense really. Good luck. The answer is "obvious."
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