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  • it's always wise to show friends kindness in the former situation and patience in the later. next week, i might send her a letter with a note saying how much her friendship means to you, that your university training keeps you very busy at times and you appreciate her patience and hopefully you can get together again, soon.
  • Send her a text or a nice card
  • You get what you give....What have you give the last few times your friend called? Excuses; and now she feels it’s time to place her time and energy where she will get positive feedback. Time will tell if she gives you another chance.
  • That is a little messed up i've done that before and i did not enjoy hurting my friend even though i didn't think i was hurting her. I get so busy with my life that i fell like i dn't have extra time to spare but it is good that once in a while maybe before you go to sleep or when your taking a coffee break during your week to think about those who have been there for you and give them a call or text to see how they are doing it is very much appreciated when you do that and let them know was goin on with you to so they don't feel like your avoiding them it's great to keep your relationships with your friends strong because you never know when your going to need their support.
  • its really hard to keep in touch when you have a lot going on in your life. maybe if you know where she works or hangs out, you could surprise her and just tell her you miss talking to her and apologize for being busy.
  • Text her and tell her how busy you have been and how much you miss her. But don't victimize yourself or she'll she an opportunity to put you in the blame. You aren't a bad friend. You are just busy! Everyone has really busy times in their lives!! If she is going to be mad at you for being busy this is not a very good reason to be mad at you! So relax, text her something friendly like 'hey! Its been so long! I've been flat out I wish I could see you soon, I'm free (blah blah) I'd loveee to see you we have so much to catch up on!' Something like that light hearted and no blame =) Goodluck!!

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