by kerr-plunk on September 25th, 2009

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My gf (well now EX girlfriend) broke into my apt. the other night, ransacked the place, and put bleach on some of my clothes. My phone battery had died while I was at a buddy's watching football. She thought I was with another woman. What should I do?

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  • by MargaretMcGhee on September 25th, 2009

    MargaretMcGhee

    Completely ignore it. Don't call her. Leave her alone. No excuses on your part.

    Never complain. Never explain.

    Remember that.

    She's out of your life. You no longer know her. Don't get into conversations with her or her friends. As far as you're concerned--she's dead.

    Any conversations will go in circles of excuses and remonstrations. It's a loser's game. Be a winner. Eliminate her without a word or explanation.

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  • by Nemesis on September 25th, 2009

    Nemesis

    Change ur apartment lock and kick the psycho out of ur life

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  • by mrbuddhafreak on September 25th, 2009

    mrbuddhafreak

    Eat the loss of the clothing and dance for joy at the fact that you are no longer with a controlling lunatic. Come on! I'll help. Happy! Happy! Joy! Joy! (bump bump)

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  • by Equalizer on September 25th, 2009

    Equalizer

    Being that legal action is obscured by your sentimental lingerings the only viable option would be to seek direct financial resolution.I would still say that prosecution is the best idea period,cut the cord and fill out the blue form man.

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  • by Wide Awake @ has closing date woo hoo on September 25th, 2009

    Wide Awake @ has closing date woo hoo

    Prosecute for breaking and entering, and destruction of property.

    If a relatively small amount, take her to Small Claims Court.

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  • by President Norris 2016 on September 25th, 2009

    President Norris 2016

    does she know that shes now your EX, sounds like this crazy chick doesnt get it yet; maybe re-explain things to her and give her an estimate of the damage she caused and include the cost of a lawyer.

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  • by Squirrel Face on September 25th, 2009

    Squirrel Face

    I say you have sex with her Mom. That'll teach her. =P

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  • by SexyLips on September 25th, 2009

    SexyLips

    You fortunately got to see the real side of her before it was too late!

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  • by Wynper on September 25th, 2009

    Wynper

    I agree with the folks here who point out how lucky you are to be rid of her.

    Report the incident, make an inventory of what she ruined, retain any evidence (like an insane phone call. Get a restraining order.

    Tell her she needs to pay for her actions in a letter. Let her know if she does not you will see her in small claims court. Follow through! She needs to be taught a lesson.

    It doesn't matter where you were she had no right to act that way.

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  • by Blue Tiger. on September 25th, 2009

    Blue Tiger.

    Send her the bill (repairs).

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  • by bagicide stayed 10 months too long on September 25th, 2009

    bagicide stayed 10 months too long

    Press charges and get a restraining order: she is dangerous.

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  • by loves.CSI.vegas on September 25th, 2009

    loves.CSI.vegas

    Don't let her bak into your life. That is a little bit too crazy.

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  • by farseer on September 25th, 2009

    farseer

    im sorry but that made me laugh lol
    she's a paranoid weirdo :P

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  • by schmee2369 on September 25th, 2009

    schmee2369

    I seen this on an episode of judge mathis or something...dont remember what. But...
    A girl did the same thing to this guys house.
    He took pictures of everything she broke, and then took pics of all the damaged cloths...and then sued her ass for all the $$ she now owed him.
    He won his case....

    I would do it, sh*t get your money back...and make the bea pay.

    Then drop her like shes hott never speak to her again, and forget who she ever was.

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  • by Anonymous on September 25th, 2009

    What a psycho - even if she was still dating you this is completely unacceptable behavior. She broke into your apt, which she can be put in jail for. I would shut her out and even put her on a restraining order if this continues. Or, if you want to give her a chance just talk with her and be clear that what she did was... PSYCHO! Haha. If she wants any sort of friendship with you still she needs to stop acting like this. She isn't even with you for crying out loud!

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  • by ZiggyStardust on September 25th, 2009

    ZiggyStardust

    you could; (Either or)

    Tell the police, because she is a crazy person

    Do the same to her, Or something similar

    Don't do anything, it's over now

    Make her pay for the damage

    Slap that bitch yo.

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  • by RubyReds on September 25th, 2009

    RubyReds

    Good for you that she is now your ex. What she did is crazy!

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  • by Alice on September 25th, 2009

    Alice

    If you have never cheated on her or caused her to feel insecure in any way then...Red Flag!!! Run get away from her because she is emotionally unbalanced. I would bring in the authorities and break it off with her immediately. This behavior is scary and a sign that she is insecure and goes into jealous rageous...

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  • by john pennington on September 25th, 2009

    john pennington

    Call the police and make a report.

    You know you are not going to prosecute her, since you two will be back together very shortly.

    I suggest you clean your apt. and carry on with your life.

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  • by Sir yhvhash on September 25th, 2009

    Sir yhvhash

    lolz! hahahahah Lolz lolz lolz
    ...is she on AB, I wanna give her +2!

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