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by Anonymous on September 24th, 2009

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My boyfriend cheatd on me one nite while he was intoxicated. he has jus confessd 2 me dat da woman is pregnant w/ his child. he wants 2 make things rite btween us but still keep da girl livin in his apt while she's preg. should i forgive him?

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  • by Anonymous on September 24th, 2009

    Anonymous

    this continues the question due to limit in characters.

    he feels sorry for the girl because she was kicked out of her house. he is 21 and i'm 22. we were good friends before we started dating and we had dated for about 6 months before this happened. she is currently stayin at his house because he said that he doesn't want to become a replica of his father, and he wants to be there for his child which is why he has offered the girl a place to stay. he has begged me to give him a second chance but yet he chooses not to 'kick' this other girl out of his apt.

    i don't plan on takin him bak. i only asked this question to get a second opinion because maybe i'm seein this only through my point of view.

    thanx.

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  • by roiboysatx on September 27th, 2009

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    duh, NO! maybe forgive him but break up. use some common sense here.

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  • by Dodgy Dog in a Sable COAT on September 27th, 2009

    Dodgy Dog in a Sable COAT

    You did the right thing. Cheating using the old alcohol excuse (or any other) is not acceptable.

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  • by AnonymousGirl on September 27th, 2009

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    You should forgive him, but you should leave him. In the end, though, it's all up to you.

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  • by AnnieB on September 24th, 2009

    AnnieB

    Yes. Forgive him, because that will be good for YOUR sanity. But, don't stay with him. She's living with him. He won't make her leave. Let him have his family, and you can have your freedom to choose a man who will be faithful to you, and not use alcohol as an excuse for his bad behavior.

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  • by Anonymous on September 24th, 2009

    Anonymous

    No.

    Guys who cheat should NEVER be forgiven (unless they are multimillionaires).

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  • by LuckyKnickers on April 18th, 2010

    LuckyKnickers

    Forgive him, girl.
    Would you want him to throw out a young pregnant girl? If you were pregnant would you want him to treat you that way?

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  • by a0100032 on May 26th, 2010

    a0100032

    Im sorry but hella no wtf do even consider it your much better than that and you deserve better i know it seems like you cant move on but things happen for a reason and its time to let go....

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  • by - MojoThunder - on September 24th, 2009

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    Get a clue and get a new boyfriend before you get stuck with him as a baby daddy too

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  • by Anonymous on March 3rd, 2010

    Anonymous

    Forgive him, it was stupid drunk sex. Now if he is doing her while she is living with him (which is what I would do) that is a different story!

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