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Welcome to Answerbag, a community of people sharing what they know. Top Answer out of 215 by anonymous on Mar 20, 2007 at 4:07 pm Permalink
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I truly hope you took down the name of the person that told you that. She is a professional and is responsible for everything that comes out of her mouth. What she told you could have and has already had serious mental effects on you. She gave you horrible advise as a treating professional. She and the hospital she works for can be held liable for any harm or mental issues that you suffer as a result of her "advice". You need to go straight to the hospital chief of staff and discuss this with him or her. This is no joke! She is playing God and there is no telling how many other people she has done this to. I would not doubt that if you were 16 then she would tell you to abort. I'll bet she has done that as well. You need to step up and stop her, you may save a childs life
drkblader27 it does not matter what age you are, a person can not be prepared to have a baby, it is just one thing you have to learn while doing. on the other hand, it's unnacceptable for teens to have babys because there is a certain amount of maturity and common sense that is needed to raise a baby, and sometimes even 30 year old are not ready for that.
True, true. But you must admit, there are mature teenagers. There must be at least one or two people who understand the dangers/risks and rewards of having a baby when you're only a teenager. Although it is their decision, there must be some pair out there that understand these things. You can't just go out and say, "They're teenagers, they're stupid, they can't have babies." That's like... ageist... lol
Answer 2 out of 215 by mejinn on Mar 20, 2007 at 4:08 pm Permalink
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you're welcome jlynn, hope you're feeling better :)
i am feeling much better.
correct +4
Answer 3 out of 215 by puppylover on Mar 20, 2007 at 4:13 pm Permalink
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Yes. +4
There is a lifetime movie based on a nurse who almost killed a woman and stole her baby right from the hospital while faking her own pregnancy. You need to do something about this nurse before she goes psycho on you or someone else. I would have Clocked the b*tch immediatly. Im 22 and have a 2 year old and am 10 weeks with my second. I also married at 18.
Answer 4 out of 215 by ChrisDG on Mar 20, 2007 at 4:26 pm Permalink
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Thank you.
Nice Job! Very well spoken.
Excellent answer.
Answer 5 out of 215 by Crayon on Mar 20, 2007 at 4:13 pm Permalink
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Good +4
Answer 6 out of 215 by R U Sirius on Mar 20, 2007 at 4:18 pm Permalink
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thank you
Answer 7 out of 215 by Katie on Mar 20, 2007 at 4:18 pm Permalink
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Answer 8 out of 215 by idne on Mar 20, 2007 at 4:08 pm Permalink
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he asked me if i was keeping the baby, my bf and i both said yes we were, and he said "well i suggest that you think of options, your too young to have a baby and it should go to someone who could take care of it."
Uncalled for in my opinion. I would complain. My brother is a vurse and if he told someone that I'd complain about him myself.
Answer 9 out of 215 by zee-ster on Mar 20, 2007 at 4:36 pm Permalink
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I have not read all the answers here, but what I've seen so far is telling you to complain. I’m going to go out on a limb here and ask you if something else is going on in your life. How did you end up in the ER for dehydration? Is there something else going on in your life that the nurse could see that indicated to her that maybe a child was too much for you to handle? Something was keeping you from drinking enough water to stay healthy. Will that prevent you from taking care of a baby? The nurse may have been insensitive in the way she suggested you give the baby up for adoption, but that does not mean that it might not be a good thing to consider.
i think the squid asks a good question here. although, i knew one woman who had a very difficult pregnancy and had to go into the hospital all through out it to get re-hydrated. she was so sick though that she couldn't really keep down food or water, so it wasn't like she wasn't trying to take care of the baby... anyhow, while it sounds like the nurse was definitely rude to you, now i am wondering if there's a reason behind it that we don't know about?
Usually dehydration in early pregnancy is caused by morning sickness.
Answer 10 out of 215 by Singingismystyle on Mar 20, 2007 at 4:33 pm Permalink
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