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Yes!!! There are a lot of guys that like bigger women.
Love is there for everyone.
If I can find someone to love me then I am sure you can too. <sarcastic wink>
Please don't let society tell YOU what is acceptable. The sexiest thing a woman can do is love herself first.
Just think how much you like a man with confidence. Same exact thing.
I'll admit that I find women on the chubby side very attractive. In fact men throughout history have considered "plump" a good attribute in women, it's just in the last century that this has been considered unattractive. So don't pay attention to that crap, it's just modern media brainwashing. A moderate amount of body fat in women can be VERY sexy, just look at some of those plus size models.
I like cute chubby girls. I mean, there is a very big window between being anorexic and being fat. If I'm attracted to a girl then I'm just attracted to her. I see women of all kinds that I think are sexy, skinny, fat, tall short, young, old. Any guy who has one specific kind of girl he likes is missing out on the magnificent variety of women out there. Don't get all bent out of shape trying to satisfy all these guys...there will always be a million guys out there that will think you're hot.
Most woman in this country are overweight, and most are in good relationships. Lots get not only good guys, but cute ones too. I see it happen all the time.
I have some body image issues too and I keep myself a bit on the thin side and I hear guys say they like "a little something to grab on to". I know its hard not to think "well, I don't!" I've noticed though that when my weight goes up a little I actually get hit on more often.
You can eat healthy and not actually go OVERweight.
Congratulations on your recovery! lots of luck to you.
If you find your love he will love you for who you are and you will know...
I'm pretty heavy myself one guy who I'm still with for some odd reason puts me down to this day making me cry .. But I found my true love and the time I was with him I have never felt so special and loved.. So weight don't matter and if anyone puts you down for it move on and get rid of him.
I like women from a broad spectrum.
I like tiny and petite.
I like soft curves.
I like breasts that are hardly a handful to cups that runneth over.
What I like about a woman starts with her mind. If we don't get along then it doesn't matter what she looks like.
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there are lots of guys who like heavier women... I personaly prefer petite but I would still prefer obese to anorexic. here is a hint... if your BMI is below 18 you will find it near impossible to find a guy who who would not PREFER you gain some weight, many men prefer over 30.... I knew one creep who liked over 40.
There is always someone out there for everyone else. So dont sweat it. While I am not trying to make you go anorexic I do think that if you let it go to obesity, that also is not the right decision.
There are a few things you can do to stay healthy which dont take a great deal of effort. But remember when losing weight that you should allow as much time to lose it and you did to gain it.
Best of luck
wow, that was fast. thanks to you people who replied.
Both sexes tend to favor a happy medium. U can of course still find love if you're overweight but best chances for attraction in my opinion is to stay in an average weight (not too skinny either
Honey, any guy who doesn't like you based on your physical appearance isn't worth your time. "Good guys" base the main portion of their attraction to women on the personalities of those women. I can't say I'm not guilty of being afraid of becoming overweight as well, but I do know deep down, that anyone who is worth my time won't base their love for me on whether I'm underweight, average, or overweight.
If you have a good heart, you're beautiful just the way you are, even if your physical appearance and weight changes and fluctuates. Don't ever let anyone tell you otherwise.
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You're reading Can heavier-set women with good hearts find good guys? I'm 20 yrs. old and paranoid of gaining weight due to fear that I'll never find love if I somehow manage to become overweight (I'm recovering from anorexia). Do any men/guys like bigger girls?
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Beautiful answer.
by gtravels loves her life penguin on September 20th, 2009
Thanks.
by Mean Sixteen on September 20th, 2009
And yet someone, read a$$ho!@, DRed me for this answer.
by Mean Sixteen on September 21st, 2009
Just remember that they have to live with their sad selves;)
by gtravels loves her life penguin on September 21st, 2009