by Anonymous on March 5th, 2005

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Do nice girls have a harder time getting dates? If so, why?

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  • by Jack Scotty on March 7th, 2005

    Jack Scotty

    I think so, because generally as guys we have that double standard where want a woman who is as nice and pure as the snow on a mountain top but secretly we want her to be a naughty devious bad girl behind closed doors. No guy wants to be known as having a slut for a girlfriend but secretly we would like it if they were that innocent looking girl next door who had slutty tendancies. Also as guys we generally like to push the envelope to see how far we can get with women whether we want to get them into bed or whether we just enjoy their company. Nice girls tend to have a reputation of being too uptight and not fun loving enough to enjoy life. Sometimes the "nice girl" cant get a date because she doesnt appear to be approachable. The "nice guy" may be intimidated or reluctant to approach her because many nice girls tend to be "guarded" and tend to have their defenses up at all times.

    Somehow I think that the world could be a better place if nice guys and nice girls met each other before the bad guys and the bad girls take advantage them.

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  • by njguy23 on November 18th, 2005

    njguy23

    Personally, I would love to date a nice girl.

    There are so many women out there who are too hard to please. I'll be honest, there's a physical element also (for me anyway), but I'll take an honest, friendly and loving girl over a sex kitten anyday (well, almost anyday).

    To digress, I hate drama. I'll assume a nice girl steers away from drama.

    To summarize: I do not know if nice girls have a harder time getting dates, but a nice girl would not have a harder time getting a date with me. And why? Because I see myself as a nice guy, and such similarity would only make sense for a good date.

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  • by Anonymous on October 31st, 2007

    Anonymous

    Well, what kind of a date does the nice girl want? You cannot run with dogs without getting fleas. That being said, if a woman wants a non-sex date, she must only be with "nice" men, ones that do not have an extreme sex drive. Sounds sexist and slightly mysogonistic, but true. Not meant to sound so bad, but face it, people, people have sex because they LIKE it not just to procreate. Ladies, be careful and take care of yourselves. There are a lot of us men out here that are good guys and want to be good to you AND rock your world between the sheets or on the kitchen table!

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  • by RedJohn on October 9th, 2005

    RedJohn

    No. 'Nice' girls tend to be attractive to 'nice' guys. Nasty, unpleasant, dangerous, rude, or devious people have a very limited appeal to a very limited number of people for a finite period of time. In most cases, they get just enough time to demonstrate what they're like before being rejected. Stick with being nice. 'Real' nice, not artificial nice. You'll meet a better class of people and enjoy your life much more.

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  • by robkyre on March 6th, 2010

    robkyre

    Relationships are based on short term benefits, mostly financial programs or social settings. Nothing else. So please stop acting. It's not about decency, being good-bad or nice. It works the same way for both parties. It will last as long as you are able to give something to the other party. And about nice girls, I haven't seen one yet. The ones who play the nice girl, I have seen many. They are like venomous snakes. It's impossible to understand that unless you have been bitten by one...

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