I met my boyfriend on the internet, and now when he goes online I am worried he will meet someone new. How do I get over this cyber-insecurity?

You have to decide in your own mind as to whether you trust him or dont and if you are accepting of it or not.

90% of all internet based relationships are established for the purpose of having sex. Could you find true love on the internet? Certainly, but its a very long shot. If he met you on the internet, chances are that he met 3 or 4 other women that he likes too. And each of those women could be dating other guys as well.

If he is committed to you and you only, then you have nothing to worry about. Otherwise you probably are better off not investing yourself into the relationship.

I think it all comes down to YOU - if you had met him in a bar, you'd be all worried when he went out to bars, right? Unless you have just cause (he spends hours online chatting when you're there with him, etc.) - I'd suggest you do your best to get over it and be happy you've found someone who can make you happy. If you're not in the same place and it's a long distance thing, then I'd straight up ask if he's chatting to other girls - and if he is, find out on what level. If you're just an insecure/jealous person, then maybe that sort of relationship is not for you.

Hope that helps..

just because you met him online does not mean he is going to hook up if he gets online.......everyone gets online.........if you have a concern about him hooking up behind your back, you should talk to him about it....take care....Brian....

Learn to trust him.

I have the same problem. The only thing I can suggest is talk to him and let him know how you feel. I have talked with my boyfriend about him talking to other girls online. The reality is that I know he's gonna talk to other girls. The same goes if my boyfriend were actually in the same city. I wouldn't expect him to not talk to other females. I just do not want him attempting to date, hook-up or sleep with other chicks from online.

Insecurity comes with dating someone thats you met online Its unavoidable. I suggest you make it clear that you want a commited relationship and if he is unable to adhere to that, well maybe ya'll don't need to be together.(I know its not that easy). Good luck.

Meet a boyfriend in real life maybe??