by therapist on September 15th, 2009

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Ladies: if you could get pregnant right now would you? Guys if you found out your S/O was pregnant would it be a good thing?

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  • by CaptainHarley adores his life penguin on September 15th, 2009

    CaptainHarley adores his life penguin

    If my wife got pregnant, I would divorce her, since I can no longer have children. : )

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  • by spooner on September 15th, 2009

    spooner

    No, but I am so that is that.

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  • by Gingerminx on September 15th, 2009

    Gingerminx

    No.

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  • by jazzlady1028 on September 15th, 2009

    jazzlady1028

    I would - but I've gone thru' "the change" - menopause. I'd have one more child because I had 2 daughters and now they're grown and I'm not as close to either of them as I had hoped to be. One, I have to watch what I say or she will leave the scene when we get together; the younger one is away at college (1st year) and barely even texts me unless she needs something (like, more money put in the college account so she can make the next payment). A lot of taking, for all the giving I did as a parent. They have gone thru' my divorce in '95, and always leaned toward the "good cop" parent - their dad, who is "Mr. Lenient," Mr. "Hands Off," and never taught them anything or showed any vigilance in their teen years. It was "Chuck E. Cheese's for Teens," and now it's "Chuck E. Cheese's for Adult Children." Luckily, the older one lived with me for a few of her formative teen years - that helped. I would love another child - be it girl or boy, tho' I had always wanted a boy. I thiknk I'd be closer to a boy, as I get along better with guys/men in general. I'm 53, and tho' I have a great 2nd husband, the time for having more kids has passed - alas! I wish you the best!!

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  • by Kim on September 15th, 2009

    Kim

    No I deffinately wouldn't. I am waiting until I get older when I can take care of that responsibility better. I'm going to college and want to get a good education and a steady good paying job before I ever think of bringing a child into this world. I want to meet a man and marry him and get to know him for awhile until I think about having a child. Getting to know the person you love and spending time with them is so important to me. I need to be able to suport a child and myself, with or without the help of the other person, because I am the only one I could actually depend on. Sometimes when teens have children, they can't always fulfill what they wanted to, like going to college and have a good paying job and then they need assistance because of that and I won't let that happen to me. It's always smart to use protection and think ahead, if it happens by mistakee then it's whatever. But it's important to get an education to get a good job and then worry about that later.

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  • by Marie76 on September 15th, 2009

    Marie76

    Im a female, I would love to have children of my own one day. But to be honest its a little scary to think about bringing children up in this country at this present time. ESPECIALLY with the way tge economy is.

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  • by Spicy Hot on September 15th, 2009

    Spicy Hot

    NO WAY, I have had my kids already.

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  • by Terance McKenna on September 15th, 2009

    Terance McKenna

    No I been there and done that. youth is wasted on the young

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  • by Green Goddess on September 15th, 2009

    Green Goddess

    No, I would not like to be pregnant.

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  • by Squirrel Face on September 16th, 2009

    Squirrel Face

    Absolutely not. We are both in sort of a transitional phase. We couldn't support a child.

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  • by Thriftymaid on September 16th, 2009

    Thriftymaid

    Lawd NO

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  • by AnnieB on September 16th, 2009

    AnnieB

    No way! I've had 4 children and raised 3 (still working on one.) In 4 years, the only thing anyone is going to see of me is my dust trail! I LOVE my babies, but enough is enough!

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  • by Broken on September 16th, 2009

    Broken

    I am about 6 months pregnant... and it was a planned pregnancy by my husband and I. We are both very excited!

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  • by Dark Passenger on September 16th, 2009

    Dark Passenger

    No.
    My boyfriend has a kid that lives with her mom states away, and one of his ex's has had an abortion, and it's still hard for him to deal with ten years later.
    (To the point that we've been dating for four months and we just started having sex. I'm also the first person he's been intimate with in the past ten years.)

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  • by Kingpinn on September 16th, 2009

    Kingpinn

    Hell no!

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  • by quack is whack on September 16th, 2009

    quack is whack

    No, I wouldn't. I'm not ready.

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  • by Ditto on September 16th, 2009

    Ditto

    If she was pregnant it would NOT be a good thing. I had a vasectomy about 12 years ago.

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  • by Been cheated on September 16th, 2009

    Been cheated

    simple answer Yes

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  • by mellow_girl on September 16th, 2009

    mellow_girl

    no thanks, nows not a good time...

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