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You simply need to just sit down with her and have a conversation with her. Start by telling her how much you love her and how you enjoy the way those 3 words sound when you hear them from her and you hope she will keep saying those words more and more.
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It might be useful for you to consider that you might be too needy. Why do you need to hear it so often? Many women do not like weak, clinging men who need to be constantly reassured. Women tend to be attracted to self-confident men who don't whine about not hearing "I love you" often enough. I know this doesn't answer your question because I don't think it's a good idea to tell your girlfriend she doesn't say "I love you" often enough. That would be a big mistake.
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While both other answers have a bit of truth to them, I think the best way is somewhere in between. If it really does bother you not to hear it, don't pretend you don't care. Some girls might see it as needy, but plenty of others will be pleasantly surprised . . . and no girl wants you to be dishonest with her! You don't need to make a big production out of it, either. When she does say it, for example, you could just say something like "I love hearing that from you. I wish you'd say it more often" and leave it at that. A lot of girls will be flattered that you appreciate it that much and take the request to heart. It is worth noting, though, that if she doesn't react well to it (seems bothered, starts saying it less, etc.) there may be a conscious reason she hasn't been telling you what you want to hear. If that's the case, it certainly would merit a conversation about what's bothering her.
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Tell her. Unless, you know something I don't, then you need to tell her. After all, she's not a mind-reader nor psychic. Bottom line: Simply tell her that you need to hear those words more often because it makes you feel good. I hope this helps!
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Talk to her. Everyone needs love. Communication is the key to a good relationship.
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