by Anonymous on September 13th, 2009

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I've recently read that "topping from the bottom" indicates an inferior dom. Milady Meghan and I have a very satisfying bdsm (and life) relationship. I am a gentle Master and Protector; Milady coaches me as to what she wants, I deliver(usually). Comments?

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by Hypocrisy_Central on October 26th, 2009
Fact from fiction, truth from diction. I have never heard of that but I can't tule anything out, or what works for particular couple. I do know a sub has to trust the dom or nothing good could come of it. A sub will trust how hard or soft the dom rules if there is trust. And a dom who can't gain the trust of the sub to do as asked might as well hang it up. What is a chief if there are no Indians?
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- Thanks +6 We're not into the kink 24/7.
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by IllonaX on September 13th, 2009
Oh? I think it means a sub acting more like a dom?
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- I think that I mis-worded my question. My intent was to ask if there is considered anything wrong with a loving dom to allow his sub to "top from the bottom". I realize that there is a wide spectrum of bdsm relationships. There's just this little voice in my head, put there I'm sure by upbringing and career, that excellence is mandatory. I was trying to invite comments on this spectrum. Sorry for the misunderstanding. +2 for the kind response
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  by Anonymous on September 14th, 2009
- BTW; my lady Meghan is an artist also. 2D; oils, charcoal, pen & ink. Marvelous at landscapes and portraits. Had a showing in Montreal last year; donates all to battered womens causes ( that's what she was before we met 14 years ago). :-) another +2 at ya for luck!
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  by Anonymous on September 14th, 2009
- Oh, sorry, I just didn't understand the question. I personally think that whatever works for the both of you is what it's about, and there's no use trying to conform to someone else's rules when it doesn't fit us, especially when you're already doing something a bit against the "usual" (Rather than "normal", that word is nonsense) rules.
  I'm sure some, or many, people will disagree with me but there you have my thoughts on the matter.
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  by IllonaX on September 15th, 2009
- Great opinion...thanks Illona! :-D
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I've recently read that "topping from the bottom" indicates an inferior dom. Milady Meghan and I have a very satisfying bdsm (and life) relationship. I am a gentle Master and Protector; Milady coaches me as to what she wants, I deliver(usually). Comments?

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