How can i ask my boyfriend to be more controling and rough durring sex without desetroying his ego?
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aallie47
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Unless he's extremely fragile or sensitive, just tell him. I'd be glad to hear that I can get a little rougher. If you want to be sneakier about it, just go one instruction at a time. Tell him to spank you while he fucks you. Then tell him to do it harder. Then tell him to pull your head back by a handful of hair. Then tell him you want him to call you his bitch. Then tell him... well, you see. Time between these steps could be a few minutes or a few days, depending on how quickly he learns! lol
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Try role playing first, ie. a 'fake rape' tell him you want it to be as realistic as possible. Guide him through the scene way in advance before you are both even together. The anticipation is great. Then afterward tell him what you liked about it. That should do it. +5 Best, Jonathan
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Just tell him. Allow him time to ramp it up to your liking, but tell him what you want. Most men want to please their girl in bed and most men don't mind being dominant. If he doesn't know what you mean, describe it or find porn that simulates what you want.
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