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Absolutely not. If you CAN or want to cheat...What you are in, is NOT love. So never call it that.
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I really don't think you love someone you cheat on. You might care about them, or whatever, but love does not include betrayal and deception. +5
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Only for those with a psychological disorder. Are you watching any tennis, Jadey? I have such a difficult time watching the extremely annoying grunting of some of the women.
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Yes but they love themselves more.
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Yes, I do think it's possible to love your partner and still cheat. Cheating isn't always about what you feel about your partner, it is often what you feel about yourself. Something only you can fix, but alas, people still keep shopping "out there" for the cure! This is why "blaming" your spouse for making you cheat is such a load of sh*t.
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U can totally love someone and cheat on them. It just means that u have no respect for them!!
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I think it happens all the time. People do stupid things, and they do them for a long list of different reasons (and often no explicable or logical reason at all). People hurt themselves and the ones they love. It's what humans do. And it's certainly true that we hurt our loved ones the most often and the most deeply. If I exhibit self-destructive behavior--let's say I drink too much or procrastinate or quit my job or worse--does it mean I don't love myself? Not necessarily. If I get depressed and watch tv all day and night, ignoring my wife, that's a betrayal as well, but we wouldn't say that it means I don't love my wife (though we might say I'm not being a good husband). Same with cheating, in many cases. It has to do with an individual's problems, not with whether or not he/she loves his/her partner. For the record, I don't cheat on my wife, so I'm not trying to write my own excuse here. Just trying to take a realistic perspective.
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Cheating falls into the category of lying and stealing, both of which are selfish and cruel, in my opinion. They are not character traits that I admire in relationships or otherwise. Fortunately, insofar as my partner and I, the need never materialized. I would not treat our good fortune cheaply for some sort of "quick fix". +5
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Yes. It is a quite common situation. Sex and love are nowhere near the same thing.
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Maybe so, but the cheater is still selfish if he/she allows personal gratification to outweigh the love for the other person.
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Yeah, but it's sick. Such a person has emotional problems. . And love is not enough to have a relationship with someone. . Of course there are people who are as they call themselves "poly-amorous" and there are swingers. But I don't know can You call it love and can You call it cheating, if the partner accepts it. And I don't know whether these people are really so open as they claim, lying or just emotionally ill.
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