ANSWERS: 17
  • You tell her you want a divorce, and she finds someone else. I don't see what she's doing wrong.
  • No I don't. I think she has a right to go to where ever she wants to go. You asked for divorce, not her!
  • what do you care? you're not a part of her life anymore, don't let her be a part of your's ...
  • If they are friends with your neighbour, there is nothing wrong with that. Would you be angry if your ex-wife told you to never visit your fried just because it was her neighbour? Go away for the weekend if it bothers you that much.
  • We are of European stock people who have written thousands and thousands books on ethics and tend to think that it's classless!
  • i think it is classless that she would go to your neighbours with a new boyfriend when you arent actually divorced yet.
  • You asked her for a divorce. She moved on. Why cant she take her new bf to her old friends?
  • "No." You asked for the divorce, not your neighbor.
  • Divorce her already. What's stopping you?
  • Before this becomes a "you asked for a divorce, not her" thing, you don't have the whole story. There is no need to finger point and make this a "serves you right" thing. If you had the whole story I don't believe you would even go there. She is not a victim here. I look at it as more of a moral dilemma. We're still married according to the state of Pennsylvania. I still have her on my health coverage and pay some of her bills. I just feel it lacks taste and class hanging out across the street from my house on a holiday. She has the entire planet to explore. Why do it directly across the street? Fly! Be FREE! Go!!! Leave me alone!
  • Not really. You're the one who asked for a divorce. Is she not allowed to be friends with your neighbour just because YOU asked for a divorce? If your answer is yes, you have the answer to who the classless person is: YOU.
  • I suppose I immediately created bias by saying I was the one who asked for the divorce. I see a lot of comments that say "you're the one who asked for the divorce". Would your answer be any different if she committed adultery? Abandoned me? If she was the one who asked for the divorce? To me, this is about ethics. Her and I are still married according to the state of PA. It's my opinion, and only my opinion that ethically, I think she should wait until the divorce is final before parading around her new boyfriend in front of my house. Plenty of places to go on this beautiful planet. Why my house? lol
  • Extremely Classless... but that's so common.
  • you should move on all ready, divorce and make your own new life ! it is not classless it shows she is over you as you should be over her. +5
  • I think you should make plans to go somewhere you would enjoy and not be anywhere around. Move on. +5
  • Just serve her the papers and get on with your life. hon. She's not worthy of you and you do deserve better.
  • No. She has every right to go to her friends home with her new boyfriend. You are the one who asked her for a divorce. She is living her life the way she see fit and you should be doing the same thing. The best thing to do is get your divorce filed and over with. Then you can move on and be happy. Not to sound mean but you obviously do not Love her or you would not have asked her for a divorce a year ago. If you would of filed after she moved out, you would be footloose and fancy free by now. I wish you the best. :-)

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