ANSWERS: 16
  • Collect for the 18 years of child's support.
  • I have never met either bioparent. all I know is she was 16 and they combined to make a child whos dominent genes were caucasian. if I was offered the chance to meet them which was not inconvienient I would take it. but they are little more than strangers to me.
  • I've been curious about my own father and would like to meet him.
  • i would meet him and form my own opinion. +5
  • yes you should. If it turns out bad at least you wont spend the rest of your life wondering if you should have.Go for it.
  • Take it and form my own opinon:)
  • Meet him and see for yourself.
  • meet him and hear his side of the story, you'd be suprised how much a parent can twist things around as to make themselves look good like your mum could have cheated countless times, your dad could have caught her in bed with another man and flipped, sure he was violent but it was the situation that caused it yet the woman acts like the victim and elaborates the story so much over the years (failing to mention she cheated) and will make it sound like he was a woman beater who tortured her for years. Meet the guy and see what he has to say, if you find what your mum said was true then it's your decision whether you want to stay in contact and get to know him as a father.
  • Meet him. Your mom is probably not objective. Unless by evil, you mean he is a serial killer or rapist or something. Even then I would meet him in public. You should hear what my ex wife says about me. Horrible stuff, but everybody who knows me also knows it is not true.
  • If you are an adult and you want to meet him, do.
  • Jump at the chance to meet him!
  • I would probably want to meet him so I might try and form my own OPINION. Unfortunately, there are three sides to every story... Your Mom's Your Dad's and the cold hard truth! Doubtless he is NOT going to be a perfect person. This doesn't mean he does not love you, or didn't want to know you. There must have been SOMETHINGS good about him, your Mom was willing to be sexual with him at least once! I say, meet him, and form your own opinion. That's fair. If he's a twit, you don't have to see him again.
  • Depending on your own "age" at the time. I would say meet up with him, to get your own opinion. Only do it in a "safe way", like in a public place. Just make sure there are other "FRIENDS" around you at the time. Maybe a Church picnic our something like this would be, a great "environment" to meet at. Back to the stories you've been told of him. You may want to first do, some research over him. Something like a "background check", to see if any of the stories are proven fact.....Just be "safe & cautious". Who knows? You may find out that he was never a bad guy after all....P.S. Remember what I stated in the beginning of this answer. For the advice in this answer, depends on your age....Good Luck..........Just my point of view.........M.C.S.
  • i'm going through the same thing. i want to meet him for myself but my mom only says the negative things about him.
  • if you are an adult, meet him
  • I would meet him and make my own opionion, my moms very dramatic.

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