ANSWERS: 17
  • You are still very young. It feels like you will never feel better but you will. You need to let him go and move on. It will be hard at first; but, you will eventually stop feeling so strongly about him. I hope it goes well for you.
  • If he doesn't want the relationship to continue, there isn't much you CAN do. If you continue to try, you'll only widen the rift between you and possibly make him get a restraining order placed against you. If you don't mind me asking, what happened to split you up? Maybe you should take a break for a while, try dating some other people.
  • For your own sake...MOVE ON! Its not worth the hassle your only 16 and there are TONS more guys out there. Its better to have it end sooner then later. And remember you might have to kiss many frogs before you find your prince. He is saying he loves you but the truth is he doesn't, because if he did he would still be with you.
  • yea i been there so just chill out and put your feelin on hold and he will come around
  • pray ,god knows
  • thankx everyone =]]] u where all right... now i have a new bf and now that guy is trying to get back with me =]] haha its quite funny...thankx again and best wishes to you all <3333
  • If he reli loved you like you say he does, he'd be wiv you. I know you love him loads, and it will get easier in time. It wont feel like it now, but eventually, you'll find someone who loves you back & wants a relationship wiv you. So hold in there and stay strong!
  • If he doesn't want ya, then you have no choice but to move on. Let me tell you this, there will be other men. Some who will love you less than this guy and others who will have loved you more. I know you don't see that happening or don't see yourself with anyone but your ex. But it will happen and time does heal all wounds if you let it. Just keep busy, spend more time with friends or doing more activities.
  • Its funny how most girls will tell another girl to move on but will tell a boy to pursue
  • well you can't make people have a relationship with you. Go on with your life.
  • You're 16. You've missed years 14 and 15 of your life because thinking you should be in a serious relationship. Go out, enjoy life, and don't regret wasting your teenage years on a boy who in all likelihood, you'd have never ended up marrying anyways.
  • If you love them, set them freeee!
  • Forget about him. In twenty years you'll barely remember anyone you knew when you were 17, let alone him. Even if you do...you'll be so over it.
  • i know how u feel, its hard to move on when u know u have to
  • I was in a similar situation at that age. I was with my bf for 2 years and we broke up because it was better for both of us. We still loved eachother so we decided to remain friends and stay in eachothers life. It turns out 9 years later he is still one of my best friends although he's in prison right now and I don't write him as much, I am still grateful to have had him in my life all these years. Our love for eachother helped us keep our friendship.
  • I don't think there is much you can do honestly. Just hope and pray he changes his mind. I do hope, if he doesn't, you don't have too many regrets.
  • Im a 42 year old speaking as a father figure here. I suggest you find a distraction to occupy your heart and mind from this young man to give yourself time to heal. Basically, stop communicating with him, hanging out with him and/or his friends and try to stop talking about him. This will allow you time to heal to be better prepared for the next potential Romeo. In a nut shell, move on. You are so very young, as is he. Take what you learned in this relationship to be better prepared for the next one, but do give yourself time to heal before you enter the next one. Also, dont beat yourself up here. The teenage years are a challenge to any relationship considering how much learning and changing takes place in such a short amount of time. Just focus on self esteem and loving yourself first, that way you won't settle for the first loser that gives you attention. Mistakes you make now, will stay with you the rest of your life. Goof luck..

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