once an ex asked me to kick him really hard in the balls. suffice to say that was a very short relationship

The creep sounds like he has a disgusting fetish...I would tell him I have a better idea and cut them off and then kick them across the room and tell him to have a nice day!! What a pig!! Sorry but that's weird!

i wouldn't be able to ask her

still doing it momshouse?

I LOVE it when my wife slaps my rod...she doesn't do it nearly enough because she feels wierded out by it. But It's HOT for me

My boyfriend loves this kind of touch. He has a high pain tolerance and finds the lines between pain and pleasure to be very exciting. He likes for me to wrap my fingers around the top of his testicles and pull down. I don't think any of this has to do with him wanting to be submissive to me... I would be willing to explore that with him... he just seems to like the pain. He also likes for me to scratch him during sex. He would like for me to draw blood, but it hurts my fingernails to to so. I have begun to file them to make the edges sharper so he will feel more pain. I encourage any women who happen to read this to consider asking your husband if there are any fantasies he would like to try... anything he thinks about and would enjoy. I say this because a year ago I went on a tear of sleeping with married men. I only did this with me who were looking for sex partners because they had deep desires that they were afraid to ask their wives for. It often was something simple like spanking. These are very powerful urges for men and they deserve to have these simple needs met. Sexuality is very complicated and if something "weird" turns on your man, what does it hurt to go there with him. He may very well seek it out if you won't give it to him. And most of the guys I talked to about this were afraid to even bring it up.