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by Tareesh feels like lifes third wheel on August 30th, 2009
Ok, so on a lot of levels I can agree with what most people have answered here. But if I can play devil's advocate for a bit - what about all the cases of people meeting, falling madly in love, and THEN finding out they are related. I don't think that's so black and white. Imagine finding out your partner, lover, best friend was actually your brother or sister etc. You've already formed that bond, maybe over some years. What then?
Laws are put in place in an attempt to protect the general welfare of the community, and this is what anti-incest laws do. But they unfortunately do not leave room for more specific situations like this. It would be just impossible to do so.
I don't believe it is 'WRONG' in a situation like this. People in this kind of situation will be in enough pain and worry without being judged badly by the community. I think that if in this type of situation if the couple decided to stay together, there could be an allowance made for them, so long as they did not have children together.
by ashleigh1 on March 3rd, 2010
It's all about the orgasms... If it's mutual and you're adults, who cares? I was age 10-- to age 16 tribbing with my sister to the hottest orgasms my pussy has ever had, and I loved every minute of it --- if she wanted to scissor me now, I would Jump at the chance, and I'd do it daily, if I could... It's never okay if it's rape, if it's forced, if there's pain... It's all about mutuality, and it's all about the big O! Otherwise, forget it!
by Indyla on September 2nd, 2009
I had mutual masturbation withmy nephew when he was 14. I was his first sex partner when he was 19.
by branciforte3241 on August 30th, 2009
There are two reasons why incest is frowned upon:
1) Offspring bear a greater chance of birth defects. Plus, there is an evolutionary advantage to genetic diversity.
2) There is a good chance that the emotional bond will be abused to get sex.
The real problem with conversations about incest is that one party is usually imagining a father using his patrician advantage to have sex with his young daughter, resulting in a deformed baby. Usually the other party in the conversation about incest is imagining hooking up with his hot, adult cousin whom he just met for the first time at a party.
by Temporary Name on May 25th, 2010
ive had incest relationships with most of my family. i dont think there is anything wrong with it. ive gotten pregnant 4 or 5 times from my brothers and dad and uncles and male cousins. i dont just do the male family members either ive had sex with my mom and sisters and female cousins. it is the best feeling in the world.
when i lost my virginity i lost it to my twin brother. we were the only 2 home and i was super horney and he is super hot. i got out of the shower and went into my room. then i called him in and he found me laying on my bed soaking wet. i went up to him and kissed his lips and neck and then i went down to his hard cock and sucked it and then we went to my bed and fucked. he popped my cherry and that was the first time i got pregnant. i lost the baby unfortuneately but the last time i got pregnant i did my brother again and i had the baby and he is perfectly fine no defects. i recommend incest to anyone it is the best
by MarksMom on March 5th, 2010
Love makes sexual intimacy a wonderful experience, even when the people involved are close family members. It felt a bit strange the first time my son and I kissed and made love, but we love each other, and enjoy being with each other.
by jbrecken on September 1st, 2009
It's not wrong if there's no chance of pregnancy, like if it's same-sex or post-menopausal or something, but it's still uncomfortable to think about. I've never had such a relationship.
by TAPriceCTR s son is wearing his COAT on September 1st, 2009
I had a hot cousin... I am adopted so there is no real problem... never tried anything though.
by crooked_shaft on August 30th, 2009
Yes but I also believe that if that is your thing than more power to you I wont be judgemental of you but it is just not for me.
by Schonberg on August 30th, 2009
The Incest laws are not just about stopping two people who love each other having a relationship.They are designed to stop close relations having children together,as inbreeding causes congenital birth defects.All the Royal Families of Europe have through the ages married close relations and this has led to birth defects even madness in the family.Every now and again they will marry a commoner to inject fresh blood into the family.It is very sad when two close relations truly love each other,but it is right that they should never marry and have children.
by bolwerk on August 30th, 2009
I can't see why it's wrong if there is no power imbalance and there are no children involved. Parent<->child sex means a power imbalance though. Brother-sister sex doesn't necessarily mean that. But damn better wear condoms and abort any offspring.
by AnonyMOUSSE on August 30th, 2009
oh my, I definitely would say yes, mega wrong. Imagine a father and his own daughter, ewwwwwwwww
and NO!!!!!! NEVER.
by Anonymous on March 4th, 2010
Incest is never wrong. It is just like homosexuality. if people called it familialsexuality instead of incest it would start to take on a less negative meaning to people.
I'm not using these to offend anyone I don't use these words but as an example of how ignorant some people can be. If I was to call a guy a fag that is negative but gay or homosexual is ok. A girl a dike or butch is bad. But lesbian or homosexual is ok. Lets all start using familialsexual instead of incest.
by Zombies on October 1st, 2009
"Wrong"? No. Of course not. Two adult people can enter into a consensual relationship at any time in my book. It's not mine - or your, or anyone else's - business.
by Anonymous on September 30th, 2009
its probably wrong, but then again two consenting adults should be able to do what they want. avoid pregnancy for sure.
i have always wanted to have sex with my mother. i fantasize about it all the time and would do it if given the chance, right or wrong.
by Azure2012 on September 24th, 2009
I feel that incest between two consenting individuals is perfectly fine. The rate of birth defects to childern born in an incest relationship is higher but the rate is about a 9% chance compared to the about 7% for the rest of the population so that in my opinion is not a good reason for opposing incest.
by Thinker on September 6th, 2009
Even in the Bible incest is not wrong as long as those involved love one another. The exception to this is when it is forced rape with no love or care for the person forced; such as when Annon raped and left his sister rather than marrying her.
I have not been in an incest based relationship but if it occured it would be with love not force.
by Heather108 on September 1st, 2009
I would have to leave the "wrong" judgment to somebody else but sex between blood relatives is a bad thing for legitimate reasons.
I've never had such a relationship but when I was 12 and with a boy cousin that was 14, we were in one of those shower stalls where you go to wash of sand and salt before you go into a beach house, yeah I almost did.
Nothing to do with love, more like out of curiosity. He took off his swim trunks so I took off my swimsuit. After a few minutes he got a boner, I got scared of getting caught, wrapped up in a towel and went in the house.
If other people had not been near and coming in behind us, it probably would have happened.
by Anonymous on August 30th, 2009
yes it is wrong and no i wouldnt theres plently of men and women out there to go round.
by anothergrl on August 30th, 2009
Just the thought of it is wrong.
by Hellifino on August 30th, 2009
Well, first of all, incest affects more than the two people involved; how would other family members feel. But also, if a child comes of the relationship, it's my understanding birth defects are likely. And I also thought it was illegal in most states.
We have all sorts of different relationships in life. Friends, children, parents, siblings, cousins, co-workers, acquaintances, strangers, enemies, neighbors, etc. They all take on their own dynamics, needs and obligations to each other. Perhaps relationships with family members aren't meant to take on intimate roles. It's ok to deeply love a family member and NOT be intimate.
by schmee2369 on August 30th, 2009
Its not about love...
Its about the situation...you would disgrace your family, your friends...and ifyou want to bring children into the world to be mocked and teased their entire life, and have chaos in your marriage and love life the rest of your life...go ahead.
...but dont always think you "love somebody" until you really know what love is...and I dont think youll find it within the family. Honestly.
by Anonymous T on August 30th, 2009
In the direct I think it's dangerous.
Birth defects, etc.
.
But in further family, I wouldn't
personally see that much problem
with that, as long as it's not abused.
(the same for every relationship)
It's said that people unrelated
directly have low possibilities
of birth defects.
.
Though I would never do that in
my family, because my family has
traditional, prudent values.
I would be rejected from the
family probably. And it's not
worth it. I don't have anyone
in my family I would be interested
in anyway and there are lots of
women outside, so why bother.
.
Besides like somebody said:
"You can divorce Your wife,
but You can't divorce Your
family."
by gorillaz2323666 on August 30th, 2009
I dont think its really wrong but it is really wierd as long as you dont have a kid with them
by Sheriff Raff -Answerhag on August 30th, 2009
I think it is wrong to even start a relationship with a close relative. It's not normal and can cause all sorts of family problems. With all the people alive on this earth, you can find someone who isn't a blood relative to fall in love with and have sex with.
No, I would never consider any sex with my brother, that is just WRONG.
by Fern on August 30th, 2009
For me it is really Condemned! really, really wrong! I know it's normal to be attractive to your relatives but just use your head and think about the consequences. Don't let emotions overule your head!
by ILPadrino on May 6th, 2011
Nothing at all, your brother/sister/mother/father is normally the first person you see naked. It makes your relationship alot stronger. I helps to teach each other about your body and how it develops and you have the most intense orgasms you will ever have, due to the whole taboo issue.
I would love to fuck my mom, watching her riding my cock while I suck her huge tits would be the best sex ever. fucking the place you came from would make me cum even harder. Personally, I wouldn't use a condom, I would cum inside her, just make sure she is on the pill.
by keven 101 on February 19th, 2011
um i think incest is ok becuz im sick n tired of people sayin love is love n u cant help who u fall in love with but when it comes to incest people say its disgusting ur not god stop judging ill date who the hell i wanna dat n if i get judge by an
y body theres gonna be problems
by curiousgurl32407 on December 4th, 2010
I think it's wrong, yes. Out of 7 billion people in the world to choose from, why choose someone in your own family? There are 7 BILLION people, there is SOMEONE out there! D
by DeviantDeDe on August 12th, 2010
i think it depends greatly on consent. not having one person forced to do anything. I have Played with females i am related to. and had a male play with me before. I do not however recommend having babies together.... the risk of defects are just too high not to mention having to explain that to your kids teacher...
otherwise enjoy what you like....
by Soldato on June 8th, 2010
I personally think that sibling incest (be it brother sister, brother brother or sister sister) is perfectly fine as long as they truly love eachother as more than just family.
I think parent child incest is a little... strange to me, but again as long as they love eachother truly then it's no one's business but theirs.
I have actually had an incestuous relationship with my younger brother (he's 20, I'm 22. We're both male, by the way. Also, we're both straight, we do not find men attractive at all but for some reason...). I'd fancied him for a long time and got jealous when any girls dated him. I confessed to him that I loved him more than just a brother and he confessed that he loved me that way too. He said we are soulmates. Now, a year on, we're both engaged to eachother and we have been accepted by our friends, family and community because people aren't so ignorant here in Italy. They understand that it's fine as long as we love eachother and they also understand that it is our business and no one elses.
by Hans1972 on March 7th, 2010
Incest between consenting adults that does not result in pregnancy is not wrong.
Abuse is wrong. Inbreeding is wrong. Non-procreative sex with another adult who happens to be a close relative? No worse than having sex with anyone else.
by troubled_senario on January 26th, 2010
There is nothing wrong with consentual incest; it is better if adult consentual but there are times when teens could be involved and be consentual as well. It is mainly society that makes it seem bad based mainly on religious grounds involving Lev. 18. In mainly America laws make incest in anyform a crime but seldom is it brought to courts and convicted. Many foreign countries have no problems with adult consentual incest and it is legal.
With modern birth control methods preganancy does not have to occure but even if it does the chances for a deformed or mentally disturbed child is actually quite low. If that child has incest children the rates go up with each generation. If a child of incest has children of unrelated mate everything is back to normal.
by Catherine on October 26th, 2009
No but I had male cousins that tried...its wrong..
by peepeye on October 25th, 2009
NO & NO
by melencoly on September 26th, 2009
WTF?
by C-man on September 1st, 2009
idc if your blood relation than idc its still wrong... if it is just through a marriage ok then its still weird but not wrong...
by Durden on September 1st, 2009
It's not really about the right or the wrong but it's autority side, it's wrong to be in autority seat and expect love in the couple sense, because in a couple the two part are equal, in a 'basic' relation Parent-child, it should have a power/tutor drive, you can have autority in an incest relation without turning it in a abusive scheme.
Siblings are more possible because they're no leader/parent relation between a sister and a brother.. but in our society in incest are not allowed and with reason!!
For a shorter answer to your good question: Incest is wrong! Even in a sincere love story..
by pedal junky on August 30th, 2009
it's ULTRA-MEGA wrong.i cannot even entertain the thought of it.family tree-family stick
by Rollie on August 30th, 2009
I have never had such a relationship and will not!
The danger of genetic birth defects is high in such a relationship. Also, it against the law in the U.S. unless they are not related closer than second cousin. And that is still too close.
by CaptainHarley adores his life penguin on August 30th, 2009
Define "incest."
Do you think incest is "bad" if your family member youre fucking is under 18? I have & don't think it is!
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Well put.
by Kookie25 on August 30th, 2009
Thanks :)
by Tareesh feels like lifes third wheel on August 30th, 2009
Thanks. Love the name by the way. Your name is very creative and well put. +4
by Self Consuming Cannibal on August 31st, 2009
Thanks- it was the best way I could think of to describe how I feel about my place in the world...
by Tareesh feels like lifes third wheel on August 31st, 2009
I kind of gathered that, it's sad you feel that way but I do understand that feeling. :(
by Self Consuming Cannibal on September 2nd, 2009