ANSWERS: 4
  • what do you care? you got a new guy
  • Yeah I'm wondering why this will bother you. He is your ex is he not?
  • The way you asked the question leads me to believe you still have feelings for your ex. If that's true, you need to have a serious think about what you really want. If you're going to commit to this new guy you'll have to let go of your romantic feelings for your old boyfriend or it will just cause problems and temptation down the road.
  • Okay, I apologize for posting again here but I was curious about this situation so I just went back and read ALL of the questions you've posted about this. To me, it sounds like you have very deep feelings for a guy who is completely undeserving of that devotion. This is only my opinion, mind you. Some of the things you've said this guy has done are unforgivable, and if it were me I'd never be able to trust him again. You need to sit down and take a long time by yourself. Consider what you really want. Did you start dating this new guy hoping to make your ex jealous? That rarely works, and it usually just ends up hurting the poor sap you're using. Its cruel and petty and wrong. Now if you really like this new guy, then stick with him and don't worry about what your ex thinks. Just be happy, move on, enjoy life. Your ex really isn't worth the amount of mental stress you're having over the whole situation and this sort of worry and stress can tear you apart inside.

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