Is it wise to hold back love,or refuse to fall in love for fear that one may be wronged or deceived?
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jin jang
ANSWERS: 6
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You should give it a chance. Take it slowly and see if it's right. You should get to know him/her before you claim to love her though.
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Not always. Overcaution can lead you to miss out on a great person. Even if you find her, you may hold back so much that she thinks you're not interested and leaves. Taking calculated risks is an essential part of dating.
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Go with your feelings. You might be right or you might be wrong, but either way you will not have any more control by holding back on your feelings.
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It's neither wise nor unwise. It is a self defense mechanism which, I believe, can indeed prevent one from truly having an intimate relationship.
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Wise if your goal is to play it safe. But unwise because unless you take the risk, you may miss out on the greatest joy of your life. I think at the end of my days, I'll be much more likely to regret the things I didn't do than the things I did. And that includes taking a chance on love. I can play it safe in my coffin. But I'll probably find some mischief to get into there too;)
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it all depends on your resoning are basing it off of past relationships or knowledge of the person or something else all together.
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