That is pretty damn sick... I come from a screwed up family where my father really wanted boys so when I was born I was definitely a "mistake" in his eyes. My mom was pretty much brain dead I'm learning and just kind of existed. Most of the things that happened to me growing up were passed off as "lets not make a big deal of it"... When I was about 8 my parents would leave me and my younger brother with an uncle. Of course I had to take a bath and he would give it to me and his baths included MANY body cavity exams... he passed it off as something he was supposed to do but it felt wrong. When I told my mom she was just like... "oh well... he didn't hurt you so..." Later when I was 16 I was in down town wearing a sundress and this guy grabbed me, pulled me into an alley, shoved my face against the building, tore off my panties and pushed his fingers then his penis up my rear... I knew I was getting raped but there was nothing I could do. I struggled but he was far too strong and I couldn't seem to make any noise... He went at me anally for about 3 or 4 minutes before some guy and his g/f broke it up and called the police. This was like at 2pm in the afternoon. I sat at the police station waiting for my Dad or my Mom to show up. They never did... The police detective had to give me a ride home. My parents refused to file any thing and pretty much told me that it was "part of life... I should accept it and move on..." So sometimes there are some sick people in the world... It really sux