ANSWERS: 4
  • Is she your ex mother in law or your future mother in law?
  • I'm trying to figure how you have a mother in law AND a boyfreind. It stands to reason your husbands mother may find fault with this.
  • I assume you're planning to marry your boyfriend, or that you're in a long term relationship. If your boyfriend is indeed your mother in law's son, then it sounds like she has him firmly planted under her thumb. Children who aren't loved by their mothers often become fiercely loyal to them, hoping to win their affection. So when you say something negative about her (even if it's true), he will always jump to her defense. He's a mama's boy, meaning that you will always play second fiddle to her. Some women can find a way to be happy with taking second place, but if you can't, then get out of the relationship.
  • 1. You don't have to visit her nor let her into your house and 2. if he doesn't like that, he has to chose between you and his mother. BTW, from your question it would appear that, if he's your boyfriend, then you are not married and his mother is not your mother in law.

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