I'm a 15 year old girl and I HATE teenage boys as far as dating material goes. I've only ever been interested in 20-25 year olds since I turned like 10. Should I try and get over this? Or just leave it alone and go with the flow?
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I don't blame you!! I don't think you need to try to get over it particuarly. As long as you get on with them as friends, and can have fun with them in a platonic sense then that is good. You don't need to be dating just yet. Maybe in a couple of years, once the boys your age are also older you may become more interested in them. So yeah, leave it alone and go with the flow =)
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Seriously, you're in kind of a catch 22 (can't win no matter which way you go...). You see, if you date the 20-25 year olds because you want someone more mature you are kind of getting what you want because YES they're more mature than a lot of teens... HOWEVER the kind of 20-25 year olds that are willing to date a 15 year old girl (no matter HOW nice, smart, cute, whatever you are) are the ones who are on the BOTTOM of the maturity chart for their own age group. Do yourself a favor and hold out for the mature guys closer to your own age- they DO exist they've just probably been overlooked by you in the past:) good Luck
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you should not be messing with any 20 year old until you're 18. end of story.
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just leave it alone see what happends.
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Leave it alone for now. You may be mature for your age but those older boys are probably immature for their age, especially if they will date a 15 year old. (It also may not be legal for some of these older ones to date a 15 year old). The boys at your age level and closely above will mature and by the time you are a couple of years or so older, you will be surprised that they have matured more.
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