The Romantic side of the answer: Distance is difficult to overcome but... If the two of you can stay friends with distance between you, this is good. Give it some time, and if nothing changes on his end or your end.....meanwhile make some new friends, and get involved in some new activities. Try something new. If you are in a position to relocate, then there is an option, but you can't regret any decision you make, no matter the outcome. What are you prepared to do? Discuss it with him and come to a conclusion. Continue to communicate with him. If the two of you have clearly decided that there is not going to be a romantic relationship, then you need to allow it to be over....follow through with the decision. Make some new friends because you should. A conclusion that I find to be factual: Men are better about moving on when the physical attachment is not there. The practical side of me: I am never afraid of commitment, but I have concluded some things by experiences and by watching other people in long distance relationships. One person is usually more committed to the relationship than the other. There is a lot of cheating going on in long distance relationships. Men and women cheat. I have seen it first hand, and was quite disgusted by it. I was in a long distance relationship. We were both in the military. I was true, faithful, and miserable. He was not. The relationship ended, when I realized that he wasn't committed to an us. I stopped waiting for him. We are not friends either. No regrets!