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My girlfriend just broke up with me because her mom said she can't go out with me anymore or see me otherwise she's grounded for life. We both still love each other, and we want to be together. Can anyone help?

By JustHereOnce Asked Aug 13 2009 12:50PM
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by gtravels loves her life penguin on Aug 13, 2009 at 12:52 pm Permalink

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That would depend on the reason why her mother doesn't like you. If there are things you've done that have caused her bad feelings, you might want to work on fixing them.
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by Sosueme on Aug 13, 2009 at 3:01 pm Permalink

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If you are still being punished by your mother, you can't be in love. You are too young to understand the concept. Tell her to go play with her girlfriends and you go play some football or baseball with the guys. Remeber that concept.....playing outside and getting exercise? Try it instead of burying your face in a computer and pining away about infatuation.
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Avatar moonchild..finding peace Aug, 13 2009 at 04:29 PM
Well said Sosueme, I agree, stop crying about things you are not yet man enough to change.

Answer 3 out of 11

by evandad on Aug 13, 2009 at 12:53 pm Permalink

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How old are you? how old is she? Have you ever been in trouble and the mother knows about it?
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Avatar JustHereOnce Aug, 13 2009 at 12:54 PM
I'm 16 she's 15. Trouble? Like police? Nope.
Avatar evandad Aug, 13 2009 at 01:04 PM
OK. I wanted to get those possibilities out of the way. She's just being a mother. She knows that her daughter could end up with problems if she's not careful with the changes her body is going through. I think she's over reacting. She'll probably settle down in time. Good luck.

Answer 4 out of 11

by Anonymous on Nov 2, 2009 at 12:44 pm Permalink

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i have the same problem with my girl friend
he father is telling her to break up with me because he thinks im destracting her in school and im the reason why shes not doing well.
In my opinion dude her moms a bitch and shes not dating you so she needs to keep her nose out of yours and her bussiness.
When shes 18 do you think she can tell you guys still if u can and cant date? No, parents should not interfere in a good relationship if there arn't any problems. So if your 18 they cant tell you who you can and cant date then why would your girlfriends mom be able to tell her who she can and cant date! She cant its all in your control and she needs to let go and accept that her daughters growing up and is acctually capable of understanding the word, "LOVE" most adults think we cant comprehend the world love we can most people around ages 13 and up can understand it the percentage understanding it at 13 is still small but some do as you go higher in age like 15 or 16 (my age) percentage raises as well to 60%.
And no im not pulling these numbers out of thin air.
If you want it to work out and you acctually love each other then she should talk to her mom and let her know she has no control in her love life now nor will she down the road its none of her concern. All her mom can do is try to make things difficult by u not seeing her or somthing but if you love eachother and you want it to work she'll have to let her mom know she has no control.
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Answer 5 out of 11

by Ken44 on Aug 13, 2009 at 3:03 pm Permalink

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Wait for 18 is all you can do .
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by Hardcore Conservative on Aug 13, 2009 at 1:02 pm Permalink

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You need to talk to mom and find out why she doesn't like you and see what you can do to change her mind. Other than that, not a whole lot you can do. Being that you're both still juveniles, not alot you can do.
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Answer 7 out of 11

by Kornflapper on Aug 13, 2009 at 12:56 pm Permalink

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Grounded for life isn't binding or legal; She should talk with her parents and let them know gently but firmly that they are going to drive her away (and perhaps into your arms) if they can't be a little more reasonable.
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Answer 8 out of 11

by Wide Awake @ got 2nd house choice on Aug 13, 2009 at 12:55 pm Permalink

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See each other at school or "by accident" by going out on group dates with a bunch of people which happens to include both of you (and your dates, who have to agree to this, of course).
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Answer 9 out of 11

by ms_bossy on Aug 13, 2009 at 12:54 pm Permalink

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how old are you both? you should have a talk with her mother tell her whats up
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Answer 10 out of 11

by Just ONE More To Go on Nov 2, 2009 at 12:47 pm Permalink

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boo hoo and wah ... get over it ... walk it off
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Avatar Lori Nov, 02 2009 at 06:04 PM
it's his gf. they broke up. hava heart. god
Avatar Just ONE More To Go Nov, 03 2009 at 08:00 AM
and he's the only person who ever has or ever will be in this situation ... he should grow a backbone
Avatar Lori Nov, 03 2009 at 12:17 PM
actually my best friend's cousin went thru this same thing except they put a restraining order against him for something he didnt even do. he was seriously depressed over it. we felt so bad. it took 4 months for him to fully recover it was sad cuz he said it was the first girl he had ever really fallen in love with.


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