by Evil Pregnant Master on August 10th, 2009

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I lost my twin boys in 07 at 30min old and the other at 46min old in my hands, but i dont get how someone could ever get over it, is it posible?

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by buttman on August 10th, 2009
Lynn, I'm trully sorry you had to go through the pain
of loosing your twin babies--I know what it feels like.
I lost a beautiful baby girl when she was 6 months old.
For a while I had a rough time dealing with the loss,
but with the passing of time, and the two healthy
daughters that I have, the pain has subsided. Today I
could think about it, as I have, but the pain is no
longer there. I wish and hope that time can do the same
for you.
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  by Evil Pregnant Master on August 11th, 2009
- You're welcome.
  
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  by buttman on August 11th, 2009
- I am sorry *cutebutt* that you had that loss. And you said something to Lynn very helpful. +6
  
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  by alwayscurious on August 11th, 2009
- I hope I did. I feel for her. I had that unfortunate experience.
  Thanks *AC*.
  
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  by buttman on August 12th, 2009
- I think what you told her can be very helpful. I never have had that experience, so I could not say the same kind of thing to help. Someone who can relate can be of more help in what they say. I'm sorry YOU had to go through that! And you are very welcome. :)
  
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  by alwayscurious on August 12th, 2009
- Very kind words *AC*. You're a sweety.
  
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  by buttman on August 12th, 2009
- You are very welcome & thank YOU! :)
  
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  by alwayscurious on August 12th, 2009
- YW (:-D
  
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  by buttman on August 12th, 2009
- you both are very helpful i must say, and i have given much thought to everything. tryd to leave ab but here sits all my friends that are on ab and have given me a helping hand when in need. so i ran 10miles took my lovely boys and came home late and now here i am lookn at you two with a great big THANK YOU to both. HUGS you both are the best i must say. ;-)
  
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  by Evil Pregnant Master on August 12th, 2009
- Thanks Lynn.....glad it has been helpful. BIG HUS to you!!! Yes, is hard to leave AB & so many great ppl here.
  
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  by alwayscurious on August 12th, 2009
- welcome alwayscurious, helpful is what you and many do best. its really hard to get into a place like this and try to leave just dont seem to hold my breath cause i know i will be comen back ;-) but nothing wrong with that just start to missn people is all (GRINS)
  
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  by Evil Pregnant Master on August 12th, 2009
- Yep, I quickly get to missing some people on here too.
  
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by Bull wears a COAT of many colours on August 10th, 2009
No, you never get over it. But, it becomes less painful over time.
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by gtravels loves her life penguin on August 10th, 2009
I honestly don't know Lynn but I'm so sorry for your loss and pray that the intensity of your pain will lessen over time.
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by Inducted Kitty on August 10th, 2009
My deepest sympathy to you.
I also lost 2 sons, 5 weeks apart, 4 years ago. I have never, nor do I expect to, get over it.
It will haunt me for the rest of my days.
I have had therapy for post traumatic stress syndrome, but each year, when Mother's Day (my son) and Father's Day (his son) come along - we both are in the same pain again as the first day.
I wish I could tell you that it does go away, or get easier, with time. But, in my case, in just intensifies. Maybe it is the finality setting in.
Again, my heart aches for you, and any other parent who has stolen children.
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by cofe is grateful today on August 10th, 2009
I am so sorry for your loss Lynn. I can't imagine the pain but I imagine in time that it does get less. It is not something that you will necessarily get over, it is something you move on from and make peace with.
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by 2old2dieyoung on August 10th, 2009
Not completely, but it does get better. I know two women that have lost multiple children, and they both struggled horribly before moving on. But they DID move on, and are doing well now. I hope you can heal and find the solace that comes with acceptance. Blessings.
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by Masculinist on August 10th, 2009
I'm really sorry to hear that. No, no parent could ever get over it.
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- i thought i should be by now, im going on 21 with a 18month old and a 3month old boy and pregnant again LOL. but i still hold a emty space for the two i held just 2years ago. +6
  had them at 24weeks, there was nothing to be done to help them out so i said i will hold them. then i had my 3rd son at 33weeks and hes still here almost lost him 5times, oh i couldnt go threw that again.
  
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by ThorThpot on August 10th, 2009
I'm sorry for your loss. My experience is that you never forget, but you can learn to become thankful for the time you had, however short. When I lost my sister at way too young an age, I knew only grief at the emptiness, now I can sincerely enjoy the memories. And I'm honestly looking forward to leaving a cupcake on her grave for her birthday; she would have liked that.
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by FaceNthaBackground on August 10th, 2009
I don't know how a mother could ever get over that. I'm sorry for you Lynn.
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by Moley the contrary female dragon on August 10th, 2009
You dont get over something like that. it doesnt stop hurting it just gets so you can live with it for the rest of your family's sake. It will always be there but not at the same intensity.
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