When yes you do deserve an explanation, it's not like it was one date, he's gone and beng immature about the situation. Move on. If he could hurt you like this now, he could hurt you worse in the future. I will use my infamous phrase now "Build a bridge, get over it." Im going through a rough break up myself. It's the only way you will be able to live!

You deserve better. Forget him, there's somebody else out there just waiting for you.

this just happened to me too! it's so weird, i have no idea what is going on...if you break up with someone, at least let them know LOL

No don't try to contact him. Just get on with your life and forget about him. He is a coward and does not want to discuss it with you. Let it go

no just leave him if he wants you to know then he will tell you k it might not seem easy but its all you can do

I'd just forget about him, and move on. And if for some reason he tries contacting you in the future, I'd avoid and ignore him.

If he had wanted you to know why he has stopped talking to you, he would have told you. Any further attempt on your part will probably annoy him. I'd say just leave the guy alone. He might say things that would hurt you. You should just chalk it up to experience. If he wanted to be with you, he would be there. Just try to move on...there are others out there..even better. I know that's probably hard for you to believe right now, but it's the truth! Good luck and hope you get through this rough patch soon! :)

There's a radio station in my area that does "second date update" where they'll call someone and ask why they never called back when the person they dated thought things went well. You could see if a local morning show in your area (comedy based one) would do that for you if it's really bugging you!

I dated a guy for a month,he stopped speaking to me for 5 months and he decided to text me a few weeks ago, im going to a movie with him tonight, im still debating, hes let me down way to many times i dont know what to do?.

Ok, don't call him to find out what happened. I will tell you right now. He wasn't man enough to tell you why, so he just dropped it. And I hate to say it dear, but the harsh truth is that if he hasn't called you, then he's getting it somewhere else. He has moved on way before he stopped talking to you, most likely. He most likely started sleeping around and didn't wanna tell you, it got to him, and he realized that he was afraid to be monogamous. I wish I had a better answer, but accept the truth, if you don't or can't, this is a great way to get HIV or AIDS-and most of the time you won't know someone's patterns of this type of thing, but in this case you do. SO do yourself a huge favor and move on like that bastard has. And do something great and healthy everytime you even think about talking to him. For example, next time you consider calling him, take a 15- minute jog. Hope this helps. Oh, and by the way, I just got over the same exact thing, so I know where you are coming from and I think that some of the best advice on here was someone that said, "If he hurt you this time, he will hurt you worse later." Oh-so-true girl, hang in there.

I agree with most people...don't call him. But my reasoning may be different. If he avoided you, there's the possibility he's embarrassed about something and in turn, it could embarrass you by being with him. Or...there may be something you should be embarrassed about and therefore, you do not want to be confronted with it. No matter the reasoning, you shouldn't call him.

Obviously, he doesn't see that staying in contact with you should be part of daily schedule. Why should you honor him by taking him as yours? I am in the same situation, but I am optimistic. I think,... every coin has two side....He has proved that he's a jerk and he helped saving your time by getting lost by himself, without you having to invest any effort. This is good thing about him! Accept that favor and live on. Don't be afraid to be single, it's the greatest freedom and fun.

Just move on.

If there are no bad feelings and he hasn't asked you to not contact him then I can't see any harm in it at all. You deserve answers, but if you are ever thinking of getting back together in the future, then promise me this; Ask yourself do you want to be with someone who can cut you off with no explanation? Please remember that you are the most important person in your life. Take care sweetie.x