Why dont nurses/midwives tell you how breast feeding feels. it felt so good I was afraid I was a pervert and no one talks about it.

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• Psychological stuff is ignored yeah.

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  by Moley the contrary female dragon on August 6th, 2009

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• Yeah I know that NOW.it just felt a bit weird at the time to have such a strong almost sexual sensation.And I WAS only 18. Made em bloody sensitive where they werent before tho.

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  by Moley the contrary female dragon on August 6th, 2009

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• You want perverted...She MADE me try her, wouldn't shut up about it until i did.
  Wasn't as bad as I thought it would be.

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  by Reptar on November 17th, 2009

• I got really attacked for this one.No one explains it properly and at 18 it was scary. Young friends even now have the same problem. It seems they explain how, but thats all.
  It wasnt sexual but easily confused for it. It is different. just unexpected. If you think of it logically, if it felt horrible, animals would starve. At 18 you dont think of that.+6

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  by Moley the contrary female dragon on November 17th, 2009

• People shouldn't judge. It being perverted never even crossed my mind. Our midwife even mentioned it...it's normal.

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  by Reptar on November 17th, 2009

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• Thanks looked st that, It doesnt mention the contractions it causes in the uterus or that there is a direct connection, breast to uterus.It is easily mistaken for sexual feelings. I have now at my advanced age been able to discuss this with friends and find others worried at the time too.would have saved a lot of worry if I knew at the time.

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  by Moley the contrary female dragon on August 6th, 2009

• I have personally had a number of women say during making love with their partner and having their breasts sucked feel it in their uterus. They say there has to be a direct connection between the two. Nursing an infant or even toddler I am sure can cause the same feelings. It should not be looked upon as perversion but one of the joys of breast feeding. There are a number of good sources listed at the bottom of the page as well. and by clicking on the other tabs of the page there is an abundance of information that seems to be very good.

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  by Thinker on August 6th, 2009

• Tried to post this and it said it failed. seems its posted twice now and the answers on the other one are quite negative in tone.

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  by Moley the contrary female dragon on August 6th, 2009

• Thanks for your more thoughtful less judgemental reply

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  by Moley the contrary female dragon on August 6th, 2009

• I am very much in favor of breastfeeding and believe it is not only good for the childs health but also for the mother as well. I am appauled when some public place becomes upset when a mother is breastfeeding her infant. I don't think she needs to cover up either. She should be proud to be feeding her child the natural way!
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  This is a little off subject in some ways but still very relivant if you scroll on down and read some of the information.
  http://www.tera.ca/
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  Keep up the good raising of your baby!

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  by Thinker on August 6th, 2009

• Waaaay past that time myself but speaking to younger friends, they have the same concerns and havent felt able to raise the subject til I asked them. Much relief from them.
  . that they are normal/

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  by Moley the contrary female dragon on August 6th, 2009

• Great glad to hear that. I hope the information I have given has been of help to you and your younger friends. I was looking at the TERA page and there is a whole bunch on breast feeding but more on the rights to do so in public.
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  You have a great day!

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  by Thinker on August 6th, 2009

• Thanks.

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  by Moley the contrary female dragon on August 6th, 2009