its give and recieve, if they dont wanna do it, just spit on and and stick it in!

Not all women want oral before intercourse. I don't, so you should test reactions first anyway... Mmm. Well women can be as knackered after orgasm as men often are. So if you want something in return, you need to make sure you get it before she is satisfied. For example, if I have cum during oral sex I then start to dry up and don't want intercourse, and if I do have intercourse after I have orgasmed I don't get any pleasure from it. So you should make sure you only take a woman to the edge, and not over it. And second - foreplay is not just for women. If you want some oral sex as a prelude, you need to ask for it. Possibly perform oral on her for a while, before switching to you and back to her. If it is one of those times you aren't going to have intercourse anyway, but you want oral to completion as well as giving it, then again, you can't guarantee if she orgasms first that she will either have the energy or the manners to make sure you cum too. If you are sure that you will have the energy to do her after you have orgasmed, it may be you should suggest she do you first and you'll devote all your attention to her afterwards. My boyfriend nearly always touches me or gives me oral first before thinking of his own pleasure. Sometimes, especially after work, this works like a sleeping drug and makes me practically unable to reciprocate, against all my good intentions! Normally I do return the favour, although sometimes he comments that I am slightly less enthusiastic than before I have had my fill simply because it is straight afterwards and I am whacked. I try to make up for it by all the times I treat him without asking for anything in return - giving oral sex is my favourite thing. Then there might be two further problems. Firstly, a lot of women think that foreplay only goes one way - towards them because they need more arousing. Unfortunately this goes for a fair few men as well... sometimes you just have to be demanding. With a fair proportion of people, unless you ask you won't get. Second, a fair few women don't actually enjoy giving oral sex but do it out of a sense of duty. I think some women are therefore going to be less keen to do it than others.

i like to lick it before i stick it also but it's really up to her, she will let you know what she wants. just ask, communication is the key

wait. What? What are you asking? Do you really want advice? It sounds like you're just bragging

There was a time in my life I could not get a boner without the taste of pussy on my lips. I was fortunate enough to know women that loved to be eaten. And I was doubly blessed with a woman that was quite happy to get oral without ever getting a dick in her pussy.

I often give oral sex to my wife because she likes it so much. Then she falls asleep for half an hour or so, but upon awakening gives me the most fantastic slow and leisurely blowjob you could possibly dream of. Or offers me her body. You do need a bit of patience, though ...